"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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my cousin is ready for game, how to introduce him?

Luthor Rex

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My cousin is ready to learn about game but I'm not sure how to introduce him to it. Let me give you a little background on him.

He's almost 40, divorced once (bitterly), and is currently dating two women who know about each other. He is naturally doing some of the things already talked about on this site: dating several women at the same time, being very social, keeping his women at arm's distance.

I was thinking about introducing him to Roissy's blog and then maybe this site. See, when I learned about 'game' I was much younger and Pook & Anti-Dump had a good influence on me, but Pook may be too idealistic for this guy.

It looks like he's ready to be unplugged or has somehow unplugged himself. How do I lead him to Zion? lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warrior74

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Let him check out some Supreme videos, tell him to come here and let him read Roissy in DC. I've been reading Roissy for the last few days and its hilarious and insightful.
 
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