"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MY Clarification of the DJ Way

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I am here today to give clarification on the DJ Way of Dress. Im sure that we all have heard dress to impress, and yet some say that they cannot afford to dress to impress.

You simple say this, becuase you are misunderstanding what that phrase means. In my case, i wear almost all Polo (Raph Lauren), but you dont have to wear that to dress up.

The number one misunderstanding put foward by this phrase is that you must have a good bit of money to do so. Well i am here to inform you, you dont.

For example: My friend recently went out to oldnavy and bout some good looking(similar to the polo faberic and make-up, shirts) he bout them for $10 a piece.

Now, do you relize that a well ironed old navy $10 shirt looks better than an rinkled $60 polo shirt.

So, my friend this is what i am here to say, it's not what you have, but what you do with it. I always iron my clothes to perfection, and get a second opinion on the outfit before leaving the house...... small things like this, can go along way!

So next time put forth alittle more effort, before throwing in towel, and saying, i just dont have the cash!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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thank-you bluelemond, i am actually comparing myself of the past, to the way i dress now!, and I must say, there is a big different..today i wore a button down, purple (white outline) checkered Polo shirt with jeans, and clean white shoes to match.....It was HOT, i would tell you how many compliments i got, but i lost count (seriously)
 

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so despite the fact that there are like 3 other HUGE threads going about this right now, you just thought that you HAD to make one since you are such a fashion guru who wears polo shirts and sneakers?

thanks man. i dont know how i would have made sense of it all without you.
 

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lol, well someone is rather jolly, well if it didnt applie to you, then im sorry....man there is so much hate online, i think im just going to go get a bj to cal,m my nerves....best of luck to you all!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by E_ze05
thank-you bluelemond, i am actually comparing myself of the past, to the way i dress now!, and I must say, there is a big different..today i wore a button down, purple (white outline) checkered Polo shirt with jeans, and clean white shoes to match.....It was HOT, i would tell you how many compliments i got, but i lost count (seriously)
lets see the pic
 
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