My chick thing.......

[Don Juan Marco]

No. not that!

This is my first meaningful post here to ya all so I'll let u in on what's on my mind for the past few weeks.....

I have seen my absolute dream girl and she is working in a dept. store in the men's section Now, I went up to her 2 weeks ago to ask her if she had these jeans in my size just to see how she reacted and smiled or not. At first very straight face no emotion. Then I started about my difficult to find size (30-31 here in Holland) and she spontaniosly began talking about her size and what she has to do to find her stuff. We ended up talking for at least half an hour and because the store was closing I had to leave I quickly realized what a FOOL I was NOT asking her out for a drink to continue the conversation. Bars are just around the corner....

Sooooo I came back the next week and walked up to her again but I didn't get the spontanios reaction I was hoping for. And all of a sudden all courage sank into my shoes...just like that...BOEM!
I started stumbling, talked to her for 3 minutes while she was folding cloths to put away and I just stood there with my hands in my jacket staring at her very fine ass realizing I was making a FOOL out of myself at that very moment. My intention was to ask her out this time but no go for that question.

See guys, usually I'm mister suave himself. Big mouth, very very confident and ****y to. And i've been succesful with that cause that's the kinda guy I am. Very mouthy and always words ready.
Hell, I even look pretty good to... but man o man did I screw up. And I know why. Because I fell in LOVE with her from the first second I layed my green eyes on her. I started to picture all possible scenario's (bad ones ofcourse) and it looked like i was trying to make them alive. I really, really want her! I think I still have a change cause she didn't say get lost or so and why talk to me for over 30min in the first place right? She must like me...
NO WAY I'm going up there again and "corner" her into a conversation. She's at work remember??! What to do ???? Send her flowers with a little note? I hate that begging stuff but what else?

S O S H E L P

thank u!!

 

[yunghova35]

first thign u shoudl do is SMACK yourself, what do u mean you feel in LOVE with her, how do you fall in love with someone you DONT KNOW, i mean *** on man.

and did you say send her FLOWERS??? WITH a little NOTE???

omg man

ok u had two chances to ask her to join you for a drink u blew it sorry move on, and let this be a lesson to you

 

[Maestro Monk]

For the love of God, do NOT send her flowers. She did NOT show interest the second time you visited her. Many gals who work in retail are more than happy to talk with customers; just because you guys talked for half an hour does doesn't mean she has a high IL. Face it, you %@#$#D it up by not asking her the first time. NEXT.

 

[biker_gixxer]

I have seen my absolute dream girl and she is working in a dept. store in the men's section

Man, first sentence into this thread and I could see the train wreck coming a mile away. You haven't said two words to her but you 'know' she's your dream girl. Come on man, get a hold of your emotions long enough to realize what's going on here.

talked to her for 3 minutes while she was folding cloths to put away and I just stood there with my hands in my jacket staring at her very fine ass

She ignored you for 3 mintues while you talked to her, but you still manage to throw a compliment in there about her 'fine ass'. Gee, I wonder which head is doing the thinking.


See guys, usually I'm mister suave himself. Big mouth, very very confident and ****y to. And i've been succesful with that cause that's the kinda guy I am. Very mouthy and always words ready.

Question is, what type of girls are you mister suave with? Anybody can be smooth with a 5 or a 6, but when you're talking about 9's and 10's, it's a whole different story huh?


I really, really want her!

Oh yeah, that train of thought works wonders. Keep it up...

NO WAY I'm going up there again and "corner" her into a
conversation.

Hell, while you're at it, get a rag and soak it in some chloroform.

Send her flowers with a little note?

I give up...*gets up, walks away*

 

[Don Juan Marco]

Yeah yeah yeah I had it comming I know. Hey, at least I'm being honest here so cut me some slack guys! To make a very clear point: When I talk about girls, I talk about 9 and 10. I don't go any lower cause I consider that an insult to myself.

How do I know wether she's the one without even talking to her? I know how I want my girl.......

Also let me add that I'm not a beggar. Far from it...
So, anybody got some tips besides "next"?

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by Don Juan Marco
Yeah yeah yeah I had it comming I know. Hey, at least I'm being honest here so cut me some slack guys! To make a very clear point: When I talk about girls, I talk about 9 and 10. I don't go any lower cause I consider that an insult to myself.

How do I know wether she's the one without even talking to her? I know how I want my girl.......

Also let me add that I'm not a beggar. Far from it...
So, anybody got some tips besides "next"?

Yes you need to find out if she is your dream girl. You had enough courage to step to her twice, and the first time is the hardest so I commend you. Your next step is to simply go and ask her out. Dont do the flowers things, simply suggest that from your couple of conversations that you think she is "nice" and you would like to get to know her better.
You see her as your dream girl, now it's your turn to let her see her dream man, even though she doesn't know it yet.

 

[Don Juan Marco]

I thought I was clear I really HATE the whole flower thing.
Never did never will....

Now what I didn't mention was that she told me where she's hangin' out with her friends saterday nights. So my only plan is to "accidentally" run into her this cumming weekend.

 

[biker_gixxer]

Originally posted by Don Juan Marco
Yeah yeah yeah I had it comming I know. Hey, at least I'm being honest here so cut me some slack guys! To make a very clear point: When I talk about girls, I talk about 9 and 10. I don't go any lower cause I consider that an insult to myself.

How do I know wether she's the one without even talking to her? I know how I want my girl.......

Also let me add that I'm not a beggar. Far from it...
So, anybody got some tips besides "next"?

O.k., I'll be nice...for now. Wait two weeks before you go back into the store, if not more. Don't walk in and start talking to her about the normal boring crap. Instead, start busting on her and teasing her. Don't act as if 'you must have her', like you have been. You need to act indifferent, make her prove herself to you.
And most important, don't put so much pressure on yourself over one girl. Come on, for all you know, she may have serious emotional issues...

By the way, talking to girls lower then a 9 or 10 isn't an insult bro. The way you're acting towards this girl is the insult to yourself.

You say you're not a begger? Prove it...go in there and act like a pimp, not some desperate looser!

Good luck...

 

[Don Juan Marco]

I said I whenever I talk ABOUT girls it's 9 and 10 not that I don't TO them at all. I talk to every girl even the unfortunate ones because I like the game of flirting. But I don't go after them..

Ok so I won't go back this week hell no! But I have got to be on her mind somehow positive. Out of the eye, out of the heart as we say in Holland. My " secret" has always been to be very direct and confronting cause girls don't expect that at all from guys. Just don't fall in love with the woman like I did.....

 

[biker_gixxer]

But I have got to be on her mind somehow positive

I hate to break it to ya bro, but if this were true, you wouldn't have been ignored for 3 mintues.


My " secret" has always been to be very direct and confronting cause girls don't expect that at all from guys

Well, if this actually works for ya, keep it up. I don't see how girls can enjoy the feeling of being confronted (maybe being confident and a little direct), but what do I know...