"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My Callanetics Workout Log

Jango_Xavier

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Ive found more info and a book on Callanetics, a lady by the name of Callan Pickney found this out a decade or 2 back. Her way of thinking and training is instead of using big ranges of muscle why not use smaller muscles but deeper contractions I havent read all of the book so my description is alittle vague.
The reason I started this post is b/c I will have more motivation too finally lose my belly, im starting tommorrow so i'll report nearly everyday and when ive reached my target size i'll give a starting and finish photo. Im also alittle skeptical abt this because the book says u can lose a lot from ur belly and and everything tighter in a very very short time and give u a more natural body look b/c there r heaps of picture in the book and one lady after 19 lession each 1hr long had a drooppy gut and but but, now its as small and tight as hell. I'll never know unless I try so im gonna give it my best. b4 I forget u also get a faster metabolism and lessened appitite and also feel more energized get a more natural body look than all of those fake mags.
If I dont feel too selfconsious abt it i'll state my measurements tomorrow.



Jango_Xavier:D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jango_Xavier

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Week 1: 110kg = about 220lbs

Well today was the first day which went alright, I got up really late today so my food plan didnt go well. Went to supermarket to get stuff for new eating plan.
Lunch:
I had 2 biscuits=2 thin crispy waffers with chocolate hail, theyre low in fat + cup of half full milk.
Wasnt very hungry so didnt eat until late but, wasnt a very good idea.
Dinner:
Chicken tandori with rice and low fat sour cream but, it was so yummy I had 2 1/2 helpings then waited for a little while then had a small bowl of Ben & Jerry ice cream but I havent had ice cream im such along time so it really shouldnt matter.
Had also abt 1ltr water today.
Work out:
Finished book and tried warm ups for a hr long b/c there not that easy too follow so took a while to get them under control. After the 1 hr of warm ups should usually take 10-15 mins I said too myself that ive had enough.
I think it will take a day or 2 too know warm ups by heart.
 

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Little bit of advice, drink more water. I have increased my intake to about 2 - 2 1/2 gallons a day, and it has helped how i felt, and made me look more lean, if not actually helped me get leaner. I have to piss like 12 times a day, but still. Also, as you increase water intake increase potassium as well, these things should help.
 
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