My Buddy

[mtbbkr111]

Hey guys, I won't to into too much detail, but I've been buddies with this guy for about a year (actually more of a friend of a friend). I am not too sure of him in the first place, as he told my ex when I started seeing her that I was picking up other girls.. I don't hold a grudge with him, but I also know he will break guy code, hence, I don't divulge detailed information to him...


So last Thurs my buddy calls me for a beer. I get there, he is with an older lady, 46, who he is doing house work for, and her student 23... He is 24, and has a gf.. So we all have a drink, and I ended up #closing the young one.. Then my buddy piggybacks the number by saying "We should ALL get together".. I call her tonight to arange a date next week, she agrees, but then mentions my friend tried to que up a coffee date with her..

Like I said, he is more of a friend of a friend, but I hang out with their whole group.. He could be looking to branch swing from his current gf...

Have you guys seen this before? Would you guys confront your buddy with this, and site guy code on this? My close friends from my home town would never attempt shiet like this..

 

[SoCalMike]

Sounds like some bullsh*t to me.

I think you should tell the guy that you got her number first.

 

[The Bat]

I think you should start talking to his g/f and talk your friend up to that young girl and encourage him to go for the young girl.

While all this is going on, you are in with his g/f and can swoop in and lay the g/f AND THEN tell the young girl that your friend has a g/f. And remember, you can only lay the g/f after you tell her what a piece of crap your friend is by going behind her back and cheating on her. It makes it easy to lay the g/f that way (yes, you'll be the rebound guy but who cares?)

You kill so many birds with this stone.

And this way, your friend will know to never EVER mess with you again when it comes to stuff like this.

And don't worry, he sounds like too big of a pansy to even try and physically harm you in anyway shape or form. Even if he tries, make sure it's in public and let him throw the first punch so you can claim self defense and beat him back.

You have no idea how much you could mess up this guy's life. Do it at your discretion though. If you play it right, you can come out looking all innocent in this.

 

[Colossus]

The guy is a weasel. If it were me we would not be on friendly terms. Not saying I'd be hostile with him, but he already burned you twice. That's a punk where I come from.


The Bat's advice would be some massive ownage, but it could also blow up in your face. I'm not an advocate of resorting to these tactics because in the end you are no better than him. I would say confront him rather than resorting to weaselly ways.

 

[Heretolearn]

lessons learned:

1) Avoid the dude- definitely low life rat behaviour. No need to give him legitimacy or purpose by competing either. Just do your thing without any reference to him.


2) NEVER EVER mess with the Bat

Lol

 

[Hooligan Harry]

Seems as if your 'buddy" has very little respect for you.