"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My "Brand New Person" Game Plan

PoontangPie

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Hi everyone,

I just wanted to share what I will be doing in the upcoming weeks. Let me give you a little background how this happened anyway.

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Basically I meet this girl, I get the one-itis thing, I finally ask her out, and she bloody blows me off by telling me she's busy till some term break which is in 3 weeks time.

So realising I completely fked this up by placing her on a pedestal, I've decided to go out there and play the game and maybe ask her out again when that term break comes.
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So on to the game plan, I've printed statements which read like this "I AM GOING TO NUMBER CLOSE 10 GIRLS THIS WEEK (9th SEPT TO 17th SEPT) 1: 2: 3: etc" (I know it's a little longer than a week but I didn't want to procrastinate and so start right away)

And taking advantage of my personality that I dislike failure in any form, I know I WILL get 10 numbers to fill that list up.

I basically am going to sarge Mon - Sat, leaving Sunday for other commitments. I won't go into details on how I plan to pick chicks up, but just wanted to share this game plan.

Appreciate any feedback, comments, encouragement and possible ways to deal with that one-itis girl. I see her in school twice a week.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thanks guys, all the best. I kinda changed my outlook on the whole game thing though after I n-closed the first girl.

Be creating a post in general on this.
 
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