"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My biggest problem is that i can't envision myself with a 8/9/10HB

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Brighty

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Its so weird and I think its one of the things wrong with my subconscious, but even though I am a good looking guy (gotten many compliments), I'm tall, I have a deep voice, and I'm playful around women... And even though that 8/9s have shown that they're interested in me, I always ALWAYS end up pvssying out for some god **** reason. I DONT KNOW WHATS WRONG WITH ME!

For some reason, I cannot picture myself with a good looking girl, whenever things escalate with a girl and I start to consider going out with her, I'm always like 'man, ill be boring to her once we go out' or 'what will her friends say when we go out' or 'i won't be a good boyfriend'. This is DRIVING me INSANE!!!!! MY SELF CONSCIOUSNESS IS THE -ONLY- -THING- -THAT- -IS- -HOLDING- -ME- -BACK- AND IM SICK OF IT I WANT IT TO CHANGE!

How can I fix this?! I tell myself I'm worthy that I'm deserving but when it comes down to the moment, I forget all of that stuff and revert to the pvssy I was freshman year. Has ANYONE else gone through this and doesn't it just drive you crazy... Do you guys have any help, any solutions, any ANYTHING to solve this fvcking problem of mine? Self-help confidence tapes? Anything?

Its time for a change, starting NOW.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have a similar problem, except I don't think women like me in general. And when they do and make it obvious, it's a 0-7 that I don't want. When it's an 8-10, I think "she could get any guy she wants" or "her friends would ruin it for me because they'd convince her I wasn't good enough for her."
 
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