"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My Best Friend Tries to Bang My Girls

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Didn't read the above comments********

I know what you mean. He just doesn't get pvssy as often as he likes and doesn't have the confidence to approach girls himself, so he will need somebody to have him introduced. In this case, you.
As we have all heard before:

Get rid of those 'friends' who don't really add anything to your life. If these people only burden you more, then how can you really call them friends? And I don't mean to say that 'Steve' is burdening you, but he seems to have hidden intentions that borders using people.

Be careful.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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UPDATE: I don't know why I didn't just listen to ya'll. DJforum: 1, Chris: 0

So i go out this weekend, saturday, 2 days after Steve and I sweep the awards for this local film competition (thursday night) and go out celebrating.

My friend Nick comes up to visit saturday and we go out. I texted Jake earlier in the day asking if he was going out. No response, which is strange because he's always down to get fvcked up and go out and always gets right back to me. Whatever.

So i'm downtown, and crossing the street going from bar to bar and who do I see? First I see jake and i'm trashed so i'm excited to him. then i look next to him and see steve with THE FVCKING GIRL that came up to visit me a few weeks ago... the girl who he was talking to behind my back. (she lives in my hometown, which is like 1.5hrs away from my college). I say "sup" to her, shoot my "friend" a look and keep walking.

He's finished. I don't need snakes like that as friends.

It's one thing when you and your friend are having friendly competition over a hot girl at the bar and one of you ends up getting her. It's another entirely when a girl drives over an hour to sleep in your bed, when it's clearcut that she's coming to bang/hangout with you, one that you've already hooked up with.. and he tries to get with her, both in your face and behind your back after she leaves town, without even mentioning it to you. That sh!t's unacceptable. You don't do that to one of your supposed best friends.

The respectful thing to do would've been to simply ask. If he would have said "hey man, that kaitlin girl was pretty cool, and i feel like she was into me. Are you still going for her or is it cool if i start hanging out with her?" Boom. Done. Go ahead man. Plenty of other girls.

This isn't about the girl. Fvck her. This is about respecting a friend.
 
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