"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My best friend is getting married (Stupid *******!!)

OrlandoDaHash

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Oh, my stupid stupid friend. This is one of my best friends. I thought he was smart. But he fall in love a few months ago (6 to be exact) and now his new girlfriend is pregnant. He is 25, and she is 27. They plan to get married this next year and don't want to hear nothing about abortion or stuff like that.

We just got the news today and everybody was happy about it and some of the friend even cried. I was confused and sad to say the least. He is the first of our "company" that will "fall". My feelings were so confused; I was angry and sad and in some strange way even happy about it. I mean come on. They only know each other for 6 months and now they are going to have a child and get married!? ****! ****!!

I know this is the nature of things. Meet somebody you love. Get married. Have children. Live your boring ****ing life "happily ever after" until you die. ****, man! I wanted to scream, to make him know of the stupid mistake he is doing, but I saw it in his eyes,.. the support he was looking for.. I just couldn't of said nothing 'bad' to him. ****!

I don't know. Maybe it's just me or something. I plan to travel, to '**** around', to experience life and to know myself… and my friend have this fixed idea on how life should revolve itself. I don't know if I can support them. I probably can't. I think they are making this huge mistake, but the sad part of it is that nobody will listen.

And on the other hand, it's his life. He should follow his longing. I should follow mine.

What do you thing guys? Married ones? Eternal single ones? **** man. This is too much.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Immaculate

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Originally posted by OrlandoDaHash
Oh, my stupid stupid friend. This is one of my best friends. I thought he was smart. But he fall in love a few months ago (6 to be exact) and now his new girlfriend is pregnant. He is 25, and she is 27. They plan to get married this next year and don't want to hear nothing about abortion or stuff like that.

We just got the news today and everybody was happy about it and some of the friend even cried. I was confused and sad to say the least. He is the first of our "company" that will "fall". My feelings were so confused; I was angry and sad and in some strange way even happy about it. I mean come on. They only know each other for 6 months and now they are going to have a child and get married!? ****! ****!!

I know this is the nature of things. Meet somebody you love. Get married. Have children. Live your boring ****ing life "happily ever after" until you die. ****, man! I wanted to scream, to make him know of the stupid mistake he is doing, but I saw it in his eyes,.. the support he was looking for.. I just couldn't of said nothing 'bad' to him. ****!

I don't know. Maybe it's just me or something. I plan to travel, to '**** around', to experience life and to know myself… and my friend have this fixed idea on how life should revolve itself. I don't know if I can support them. I probably can't. I think they are making this huge mistake, but the sad part of it is that nobody will listen.

And on the other hand, it's his life. He should follow his longing. I should follow mine.

What do you thing guys? Married ones? Eternal single ones? **** man. This is too much.

so what's the problem here again? If he's happy let 'em be.

Sounds like you're just jealous and/or mad you're gonna basically lose a friend.

I'm only 27 and honestly, wouldn't mind finding that special girl and getting married.
 

lebRambo

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yeah, 25-27 seems about a good age to settle down. I hope it works out for your friend.
 
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