"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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my afc friend keeps dragging me back to square one

lurker

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ok i have got this friend im trying to help out but he never listens to me and i hate going out with him because of this. for example when out and about he drools at women till his eye balls pop out i keep telling him that drooling at women never results in anything infact i can not understand men that drool at women, becvos drooling at them still will not get you the woman in the end cant people not realize this?. my friends drools at women so much that he would stop for 5 minutes in a shooping mall just looking at a womans ass untill she passes him by and they treat him like **** too just yesterday we went to the shoping center or mall as americans call it and every girl that passed he kept looking at thier breast a girl insulted us because of that and did a loser sign on her forehead signifying that we are losers when ever i go shopping alone i get alotta femal attention but whenever im with this guy girls dont even look my way how do i change this guys mentality i showed him this site and tried to tell him how to act but he never listens im a confident guy but whenever im with this guy girls threat me like **** its unbelievable anyone think theres not point in helping this guy? i mean hes 26 im 24 and he still acts like an assjack.
as we all know no matter how improved we are theres always some friend thats still afc to the core and birds of the same feathers flock together so when women see us they just see me as an assjack.
 

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Desdinova

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You should get an award for the longest run-on sentences ever.

About your friend, you're best off to sarge without him. Giving him advice won't work if he doesn't want it. When you're with him, just focus on having fun without focussing on women. Let him remain in his AFC world while you continue to progress.
 

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Your friend isn't asking for advise so why are you giving it? Thats useless to try and change someone who isn't interested in changing.

Find another friend to pick up women with if thats your beef.
 

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Desdinova said:
You should get an award for the longest run-on sentences ever.

LMAO! :D

I'm with Flex on this one... he doesn't want to change, you can't make him. Find a better wingman if that's what you want and just don't bring that guy to places where you want to pick up women.
 
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