My advice on how to game white girls as a black guy

[Trainwreck]

I'm making this topic because I'm sick of all the race topics popping up, the archived one is kind of vague, and I want to clear some misconceptions about my race. I'm 23 and I've only been with white women and I have had 3 gfs in the past(currently have one). Could I have put more effort in to the game? Absolutely. Would I have it better in the game if I was white? Absolutely. First, there's two groups of black guys that we fall in to when it comes to dating.

1) Regular Black guy) This black guy is your typical black guy lol. He speaks like a black person, interested in football/basketball, likes black music, speaks like a black person. Pretty much this guy embraces or is predominately shaped by black culture. These guys can be ghetto, middle class, or rich because they are shaped by this culture. NOTE: If you are a black guy that grew up in a predominately black area and was called "white", "oreo" by your peers, you are still grouped in as a regular black guy.

2) Assimilated Black guy) This is the category I fall under. These guys are like Colin Kaepernick, Leny Kravitz, Russell Wilson, and etc. Hence the name, these black guys have had to become adjusted to white people because they didn't have a choice. The only taste of black culture they got was by going to their grandma's or other family members. These guys can share the same interests as number one, but you can very easily tell the difference between one and two. If these guys do embrace black culture, it is usually in retaliation to white people lol.

Each group has pros and cons that even out, so you aren't screwed if you are not a one and vice versa. My advice is pretty much to target the market you do best in and

One
pro: Your market is the biggest because you are seen as the cool black guy to white girls. You can pretty much go anywhere and find a white girl that wants a black guy. In addition, you can date black girls easier than 2 as well. All you have to do is essentially be yourself and put yourself out there and the white girls will approach you. If you are an athlete, rapper, or etc then you are set lol.

con: The girls you get have future single mother written all over them. These are the girls you will eventually see with three mixed kids from a different dad at walmart or they will snap out of their **** off daddy phase. This might not matter as much when you are young, but these girls can seriously bite you in the ass later on in life.

Two
pro: You have access to the white women that one doesn't have because you are assimilated. You also have access to the same girls as One. You aren't seen as much of a threat as One, so you can also get in some social circles that they cannot get in to.

con: Your pool is extremely limited compared to ONE. If a white woman is going to screw with a black guy than she is going to go for the cool ones that are on TV. This results in One killing you in the dating game with these type of girls because they are seen as cool and you are seen as a lame. In addition, outside a ons, yall aren't really that compatible. Another reason for your small pool is that outside these girls, most white women are against dating a black man. If you decide to game them, you are pretty much playing a football game where you start behind 4 touchdowns. Is it possible to still win the game? Yes, but the possibility is still slim to none. Honestly, I know I'm going to get bashed for this, but you'll have to up your relationship game or go mgtow. Gaming women is just too much work for two, unless you like playing games where you start behind 4 touchdowns. Also, you could act more black and fake it till you make it with these women. I

 

[BreezyB84]

The moment you realize a white girl not being interested you has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with you unless you are ugly, came at her wrong or she just isn't attracted to you, you will have much more success .

I've dated a lot of white girls and I love them as much as I do all the other women in my life I've dated.. and as a black man, I never put that much thought into gaming them different than others (I'm still new to this).

If you see a white girl and your attracted to her , just do it and see what happens. This is in my opinion is TOO much thought about the matter .

 

[Trainwreck]

Idk what type of white women you are going for. I already mentioned that black men have it easy with certain types of white women but outside of that they are screwed.

 

[BreezyB84]

Idk what type of white women you are going for. I already mentioned that black men have it easy with certain types of white women but outside of that they are screwed.

Beautiful ones lol.Just that simple. No such thing as "certain types".

 

[SmooveMooves]

I'm making this topic because I'm sick of all the race topics popping up, the archived one is kind of vague, and I want to clear some misconceptions about my race. I'm 23 and I've only been with white women and I have had 3 gfs in the past(currently have one). Could I have put more effort in to the game? Absolutely. Would I have it better in the game if I was white? Absolutely. First, there's two groups of black guys that we fall in to when it comes to dating.

1) Regular Black guy) This black guy is your typical black guy lol. He speaks like a black person, interested in football/basketball, likes black music, speaks like a black person. Pretty much this guy embraces or is predominately shaped by black culture. These guys can be ghetto, middle class, or rich because they are shaped by this culture. NOTE: If you are a black guy that grew up in a predominately black area and was called "white", "oreo" by your peers, you are still grouped in as a regular black guy.

2) Assimilated Black guy) This is the category I fall under. These guys are like Colin Kaepernick, Leny Kravitz, Russell Wilson, and etc. Hence the name, these black guys have had to become adjusted to white people because they didn't have a choice. The only taste of black culture they got was by going to their grandma's or other family members. These guys can share the same interests as number one, but you can very easily tell the difference between one and two. If these guys do embrace black culture, it is usually in retaliation to white people lol.

Each group has pros and cons that even out, so you aren't screwed if you are not a one and vice versa. My advice is pretty much to target the market you do best in and

One
pro: Your market is the biggest because you are seen as the cool black guy to white girls. You can pretty much go anywhere and find a white girl that wants a black guy. In addition, you can date black girls easier than 2 as well. All you have to do is essentially be yourself and put yourself out there and the white girls will approach you. If you are an athlete, rapper, or etc then you are set lol.

con: The girls you get have future single mother written all over them. These are the girls you will eventually see with three mixed kids from a different dad at walmart or they will snap out of their **** off daddy phase. This might not matter as much when you are young, but these girls can seriously bite you in the ass later on in life.

Two
pro: You have access to the white women that one doesn't have because you are assimilated. You also have access to the same girls as One. You aren't seen as much of a threat as One, so you can also get in some social circles that they cannot get in to.

con: Your pool is extremely limited compared to ONE. If a white woman is going to screw with a black guy than she is going to go for the cool ones that are on TV. This results in One killing you in the dating game with these type of girls because they are seen as cool and you are seen as a lame. In addition, outside a ons, yall aren't really that compatible. Another reason for your small pool is that outside these girls, most white women are against dating a black man. If you decide to game them, you are pretty much playing a football game where you start behind 4 touchdowns. Is it possible to still win the game? Yes, but the possibility is still slim to none. Honestly, I know I'm going to get bashed for this, but you'll have to up your relationship game or go mgtow. Gaming women is just too much work for two, unless you like playing games where you start behind 4 touchdowns. Also, you could act more black and fake it till you make it with these women. I

I'm black guy and I disagree with your sentiments. I also feel it's sad that I have preface with that. However, I'm not here to bash as you said, just offer a different view.

Your generalization of a large amount of black men into two separate groups is obviously overly simplistic and thus makes your analysis a fallacy in itself. I'm not calling you a liberal but liberals have made identity politics mainstream because it's convenient to lump groups of people together for easy thinking. However, this leads to the over simplification of problems or complex dynamics such as human relationships and interaction. Your identity or race is NOT all you consist of. Considering that fact, if we look at black men as individuals we run across the same laws of attraction that are universal. Not some groupA and groupb theory.

There is more to dating white (read any) women then just being seen as the cool black guy. Are there women that date men just because they're black? Sure, just like they're women that date a man just because he's 6'4. However, these women are in the minority. The major points when it comes to dating for anyone are:

• How attractive you are
• Your social status/class
• Shared interests
• Proximity
• Shared social groups
• Cultral barriers

As you can see there are many layers to dating and relationships that don't fall under "black black guy & white black guy," which is essentially your argument. How these variables align determine the 'white' (again, really ALL women) women you sleep with, not how cool one or the other is perceived.

Referring to your two group separation, If a black guy in group 2 looks are a 10, by default his pool is NOT extremely limited. As he's attractive -- making him high value -- thus, scarce. Given the right proximics and basic knowledge of game he can date virtually anyone.

If a black guy in group 1 is ugly, his social circle is small, he's an introvert and socially odd, the only women who will sleep with him are the women that want a token black man or are similar to him in those respects. Therefore, he WON'T be killing it.

This is not to mention the men who kill it in niche social spheres:

-The black anime nerd who sleeps with tons of women at comicon and anime expos

-The thrasher skater black guy who sleeps with all the white goth punk chicks

-The rave black guy whose social circles consists of only white people because he grew up in the burbs but is the life of a the party and actually is a token, etc.

'But Smoove, those are personal, individual scenarios. I'm talking as a WHOLE!'

Which is exactly my point. There aren't two groups, only individuals and circumstance. There could be any given reason a black guy is killing it and the other is not. There are too many variables to just attribute it to one. It is NOT entirely race dependent. That's why the white guys always tell you to just improve yourself because that is actually the only thing you can do.

We are around the same age. I think this post is a bit of projection. Especially evident by you classing yourself in the latter group and lamenting the fact that the pool is limited. Rather then attributing it to race how about you analyze the points I listed.

• How attractive are you?
• Where do you stand socially/economically?
• What do your interests consist of?
• Are you an extrovert or introvert?
• Are you tall, in shape or hold some other form of physical status?
• Do you carry yourself and dress well?
• How many people do you know/how large is(are) your social group(s)?
• How many women are you around?
• Are you socially inept?

Upon answering these questions honestly to yourself you where find where you are strong and where you need work.

 

[Poon King]

There is no special way to "handle certain women" fools.

STOP the pandering. STOP pedestalizing. If you are a black man and you think you have to change your behavior (aka pander aka pedestalize) to attract a certain race of woman then you already lost the game. On top of that.. you have no clue how women operate.

White women are not special. Neither are Asian women or Black women or any other woman. Its the woman's job to adjust herself to be more appealing to you because you are a man with many, many options who values your time. Women are the passive gender. Remember? Your only job as a man is to get laid. Pandering and gimmicks are for fags. Always.