I’ve never posted a field report before as I don’t often go out looking to score (drunk chicks and ONS are not my thing). Tonight was one of those nights, but somehow I managed to get two numbers and ended up making out with a close friend, without making an effort.
I was invited out with a few friends and we started off in a bar. I was there 30 minutes and, to my horror, my ex-girlfriend turned up (we had a lot of mutual friends there)!! I haven’t seen her since around March and she was the one who caused me to find this board, so I totally froze up when I saw her and felt quite sick. What made it even worse was that she was with another guy! I totally blanked her and never even looked at her the whole night.
Anyway, a friend soon introduced me to some people in the group and I started talking to one of the girls there. She was heading elsewhere with her friends, but she asked for my number, gave me her’s and told me to get in touch some time.
We moved onto another bar where a woman came upto me, said I looked familiar and started asking questions about me. She seemed a little neurotic though. She kept apologising for being forward, then went totally AFC on me, complimenting me and apologising for almost everything she said or did. She was a HB8 and even though she seemed weird, I kinda dig that. She asked if I wanted to go somewhere else. I told her I was with friends, but we could swap numbers and arrange to meet up for a drink in the week. She was really happy about that and she has texted me 8 times tonight (including 3 apologies for sending too many texts!). Hmmm…seems like a weird one!
So, I got back to my friends and began having a conversation with a 40 year old HB9 (Valerie) I’ve known for a few years. Downside is that her partner (and a mate of mine) was a couple of seats away from us. Nevertheless, I maintained very deep and unwavering eye contact with her as we were talking and could see it working like magic. She started playing with her hair, started kinoing me (including a few hugs) and was moving closer towards me until there were only a few inches between us. Under any other circumstances, I’d have kissed her there and then, but I doubt any of my friends or her partner would have taken well to that.
So we just continue talking in this rather intense way for a while until she got up to go to the bar. This is when I did something a little devious (and conquered part of the “nice guy” left in me). I decided I was going to leave, said bye to my friends and then went inside to say bye to Valerie, knowing we’d be out of sight. We were talking for a little while, during which she asked me to call her any time for a chat and to pay her a visit at any time. I took this as a major hint, especially when she said “Adrian [her partner] is at work most days, so if you want to drop by I’d be glad of the company”. Well, I then said goodbye and decided to kiss her on the lips instead of the cheek. I got no resistance at all and kissed her again, which developed into a passionate snog. We were both conscious of the risk, so we broke away. We looked at each other without a word and then I told her “See you soon” and left.
I don’t regret it, but I don’t plan to pursue it. I’ve known her for 3 years, she’s a good friend and so is her partner. I guess I just wanted to know if I could, and the ego boost will suffice for me.
Meanwhile I have a couple of numbers to follow up on, though I might give the crazy lady a miss (I got another text message from her while writing this and it’s 2:40am!).
Decent night though and I didn’t use any Djing or PU techniques; just confidence and intense eye contact. As for my ex-girlfriend, she was hovering around, but we never even acknowledged each other.
I was invited out with a few friends and we started off in a bar. I was there 30 minutes and, to my horror, my ex-girlfriend turned up (we had a lot of mutual friends there)!! I haven’t seen her since around March and she was the one who caused me to find this board, so I totally froze up when I saw her and felt quite sick. What made it even worse was that she was with another guy! I totally blanked her and never even looked at her the whole night.
Anyway, a friend soon introduced me to some people in the group and I started talking to one of the girls there. She was heading elsewhere with her friends, but she asked for my number, gave me her’s and told me to get in touch some time.
We moved onto another bar where a woman came upto me, said I looked familiar and started asking questions about me. She seemed a little neurotic though. She kept apologising for being forward, then went totally AFC on me, complimenting me and apologising for almost everything she said or did. She was a HB8 and even though she seemed weird, I kinda dig that. She asked if I wanted to go somewhere else. I told her I was with friends, but we could swap numbers and arrange to meet up for a drink in the week. She was really happy about that and she has texted me 8 times tonight (including 3 apologies for sending too many texts!). Hmmm…seems like a weird one!
So, I got back to my friends and began having a conversation with a 40 year old HB9 (Valerie) I’ve known for a few years. Downside is that her partner (and a mate of mine) was a couple of seats away from us. Nevertheless, I maintained very deep and unwavering eye contact with her as we were talking and could see it working like magic. She started playing with her hair, started kinoing me (including a few hugs) and was moving closer towards me until there were only a few inches between us. Under any other circumstances, I’d have kissed her there and then, but I doubt any of my friends or her partner would have taken well to that.
So we just continue talking in this rather intense way for a while until she got up to go to the bar. This is when I did something a little devious (and conquered part of the “nice guy” left in me). I decided I was going to leave, said bye to my friends and then went inside to say bye to Valerie, knowing we’d be out of sight. We were talking for a little while, during which she asked me to call her any time for a chat and to pay her a visit at any time. I took this as a major hint, especially when she said “Adrian [her partner] is at work most days, so if you want to drop by I’d be glad of the company”. Well, I then said goodbye and decided to kiss her on the lips instead of the cheek. I got no resistance at all and kissed her again, which developed into a passionate snog. We were both conscious of the risk, so we broke away. We looked at each other without a word and then I told her “See you soon” and left.
I don’t regret it, but I don’t plan to pursue it. I’ve known her for 3 years, she’s a good friend and so is her partner. I guess I just wanted to know if I could, and the ego boost will suffice for me.
Meanwhile I have a couple of numbers to follow up on, though I might give the crazy lady a miss (I got another text message from her while writing this and it’s 2:40am!).
Decent night though and I didn’t use any Djing or PU techniques; just confidence and intense eye contact. As for my ex-girlfriend, she was hovering around, but we never even acknowledged each other.
