"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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muscle shrinkage??

Lost

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i actually really believe my muscles have gotten SMALLER?!?!?
for a while now ive only been able to go once a week cz my mom is gey and didn want me to go on weekdays >:/. ne ways.. just this past couples weeks i look a lot smaller....wt****? i havnt added cardio or anything either.. altho i dont eat a lot.. but i never really did so there shouldnt be a change there...
anyone got any ideas how this has happened?


o btw, i think ive also lost 2 lbs or so... what the ****?


oh and uhm.. im guessing it might have to do with my diet... since im not a big eater.. altho it hasnt changed so i dnno what the difference is? but mainly i just have a bunch of fruit and ****.. like during/throughout the day. (pears,oranges,strawberries,etc). ill normally get eggs on like saturday mornin, yogurt twice a day, milk/water(every once in a while gatorade.. but mostly those two),taco bell tacos and burritos on sunday ;p, if thers any meat on the dinner table i eat it ;p. is there any way to make urself want to eat more.. or do u just have to do it, cuz the hard workouts arent paying off if i dont eat enuff...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jwhite17

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Nothing to worry about

Hey Lost,
I think you are experiencing muscle atrophy(spelling?) from not working out as much as you use to. Also, if you don't think you are getting enough food, you could start seeing exactly how many calories you are getting each day. Use this http://www.caloriesperhour.com/index_food.html
but be careful with the servings because that can inflate or deflate your numbers. A good rule of thumb is to use the size of your fist as one serving.
 

WORKEROUTER

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This guy has to be f*ckin kidding. Lost, you have more to worry about than working out...I suggest you concentrate on learning to write a complete sentence before hitting the gym, buddy. And maybe boost up that spelling of yours, too.
 
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I have been working out only one day a week now (a 3.5 hour work out) for the last three years and I certainly haven't experienced any muscle atrophy. In fact my muscles have never been bigger or stronger (and I'm 36). For example I'm currently doing 4 sets of 4 reps with 320lb for the bench press. So it is possible to do body building on only one day a week.

I don't think one day a week workouts are ideal (especially for some one who is a begginer) and I also don't think workouts exceeding an hour are good either (apparently it drains you of too much glycogen to make a good recovery). Never the less it works for me. (In my case I only do 1 day a week workouts because after nearly 17 years of weight training I can no longer motivate myself psychologically to do more than one day a week).

My guess is its probably your diet (or maybe your just losing fat?).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KiLLer

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What the hell Lost? Try eating more, you told me so many time you don't even eat that much.
 
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