"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Moving out

Mage Xtil

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Hi Guys,

I'm getting at the point in life where I want to move out of my parents house. I want to know how much you guys pay for rent and what you get for that amount. I always think about moving out but even with a full time job I can't bring myself to spending close to $650 approx for a months rent in Canada. How do you get ahead in life and save and buy something big, like a house of car?

Xtil
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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alphamailman

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I moved out a month ago. No regrets about the transition, just a personal justified sense of liberation. It costs $430/mo. 1 bedroom efficiency, all utilities included, has a bathroom a mini kitchen area. No roommates because I actually take up the entire space. I just go to school across the street for classes and to use the internet.

To get ahead in life, you must save via a crafty personal budget. Maybe try going no-frills for a little, see how it pans out. A bigger investment like a house is great, make payments on it, get married later on or never. My older brother bought a new car back in '05, a house in '07, and is getting married late this year. He's got the full-time job and is making payments on the 1st 2 things. The wedding won't be huge, remember play it step by step now, the marginal benefits are > then the marginal costs.
 

Mage Xtil

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Yes that is my worry if I do move out, I won't be able to save for a house later in life, I don't really understand stock or investing. Currently I'm living at home, working full time taking home $910 every two weeks paying $200 rent every month.

I have been looking at places closer to work but I don't know what the difference between a bachelor apartment and a single bedroom apartment?

How much do you guys spend on food for yourselves?
 
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