"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Movie Review: Be Cool

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Be Cool

Starring: John Travolta, Uma Thurman, Harvey Keitel, James Woods, Danny DeVito, Christina Milan, The Rock, Vince Vaughan, Cedric the Entertainer, Andre 2000, and Steven Tyler

Writen By: Elmore Lenard

Directed by: F Gary Grey


This sequel to Get Shorty is really just a remake. This time its the music business instead of movies. The story goes as follows, John Travolta plays ex shylock, Chili Palmer. One day he decides he is tired of making films and decides to get into the music business. Much like Get Shorty, he encounters an asortment of criminals, dreamers, wanna bees, in his path. Using his guile, charm, and street smarts, Chili eventually gets what he wants and make the imposible happen. In this case, getting aspiring singer Linda Moon out of her contract with criminal Nick Carr and Raji, and into charts with the help Cedric the Entertainer.

As said in the begining, it is really just a less inspired retread of Get Shorty. This does'nt mean that it is'nt good. There is some funny stuff from Vince Vaughan and The Rock. John Travolta is in fine form. I think that Chili Palmer is probably his best role he's ever done and his natural confidence and charisma really shine through. Overall it was a okay movie. I would pay to see at a theater.

Now for the DJ stuff. Travolta was da **** in this film. No matter what the situation was, he remained calm, controlled and in charge. For me, Chili Palmer is all about what a DJ is. One of the best lines comes when Travolta has to show up at a Premier in a Prius. Danny Devito disses him by pointing to his Ferarri and saying " What about Speed". Travolta responds with " If your really important, they'll wait". That is the attitude to have, cool confident, but not arrogant. Chili Palmer, DJ Deluxe.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That is a cool line. I'd maybe like to see it just to see the Chili Palmer character.

But I'm afraid this as well as "The Jacket" and "The Pacifier" were panned by critics. Don't give hollywood any more money for churning out mediocre films.
 

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oh hell yea
 

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I didn't like this movie much. If not for the character added by Vince Vaughn and The Rock, it'd have been flat out terrible. Chili Palmer is cool to a fault.

It seemed like the movie tried too hard to "Be Cool." It was a disappointment.
 

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Be Cool rules. Chili Palmer is AWESOME.

I would like some suggestions of films with characters such as him.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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