"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Movie Pick Up

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Is it even possible to pick up a girl at the movies?
My friend always suggests we go to the movies to do that, and it just seems so retarded. Movies are places for dates, rite? And even if there are girls with out a guy, aren't they there to see the movie they came to see. Not to get hit on, but to watch a movie cuz they liked teh preview on tv.

Has ne1 ever had success with a movie pickup? If so, share how.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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IMHO, the movies aren't the best place to pick up girls.

1) Yes, they're probably there to watch the movie
2) It's dark - pretty self-explanatory
3) Idiots will "SHH!!!" you if you try to talk to anyone with an audible voice...

My advice: go to the movies to watch a movie...go somewhere else to hit on girls. ;-)
 

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You can always approach girls in the lobby before or after the movie...just as you can approach girls who are standing around in any public place.

I wouldn't recommend trying anything during the movie itself.
 

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Originally posted by blienk
I wouldn't recommend trying anything during the movie itself.
^^^That's what I meant to say. ;-)
 

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Yeah, but that seems like its limited to a number close. I wanna get some action. So I guess the movies is only good for that
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lol so if u dont like going through the whole # process.... go read up on SPEED SEDUCTION. go check out www.fastseduction.com ... it has what u want, u can thank me later.
Note: itl' take u a long time to get good at it, as is the case with anything.
 

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I've read over that stuff like once.
And it just seems so douchey to do. Kinda feels like taking advantage of a girl. But thats wat I want to do, so in the words of Tim Cruise "What the Fukk"
 

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I work at a movie theater, so I happen to know a lot about them. Here it is:

1. The crowd tends to be youngish. It's a better PU place if you're under sixteen, and if you're over 20 I wouldn't bother going.

2. Of course, you can't pick up girls in the theater. That's why the theaters hire people like me, to kick @ssholes like you out :D

3. The lobby is mobbed at certain times, when all the movies get out. Find out when these times are, because for about 15 minutes there are ****loads of people everywhere, including hot girls. At other times, the lobby is deserted though.

4. Yes, you're pretty much limited to a number, unless you have a car and can drive her somewhere else. The good thing is, there are just so many people there at the good times, so you could just keep pounding away getting rejections and numbers until the crowd thinned out.

-Dan
 

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Yeah screw it I'll just get some numbers


Actually my rides here rite now

Thanks guys

PEace
 

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i went down to the theatre with my buddy once, back when i was all afc
he walked up to a bunch of girls
he said in his EI accent "hey, what movie are u girls gonna go see?"
they said "the hot chick"
hes says "hey, i hear thats really good. mayb me and my buddy will come with you"
they say "yeah, that sounds cool"
so we go see the movie wit them and at the end of the night get sum numbers

another time at the same theatre he walked up to two girls acting like we just saw a flick sayin "hey, what movie did u girls just see?"
theyre like "we just saw......"
he says "thats cool. it really sounds like a good movie. what are u doin for the rest of the night?"
tehy said they were sposed to wait for some guys to come pick them up but they were really late
my buddy says "alrite, i was gonna ask u to come down to the pool hall with us. but tell u what, were gonna go to mc****s and grab sum food, if ur still here when we come back ur gonna come with us alrite?"
so we go to mc****s and come back only to find these guys parked outside the now closed cinema.
so we pull up to talk to the girls, and we exchange numbers and go our seperate ways.

also, once i was at the theatre wit another buddies and out gfs. and two girls came up to us and started talkin to us, we were havin a nice convo. but then the gfs came back and dragged us away :(

so in the end its really easy to pick up girls in the cinema.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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