"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Motivation.

It's-Me

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I'm tired of not getting the results I want with women. I'm tired of not doing much about it...

I know what has to be done, but most of the time I won't do it :(.

For that reason, I'm posting this thread. I would like to inspire people and myself to go out and get those results!

I'm just f**king tired of feeling sorry for myself mostly!!!!!

I'm going to give myself a number of approaches weekly and do my best to get it done.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Groovy

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Do the right thing!

Never EVER be passive. IF you know what's right, DO IT even if it scares you to death!

Feelings can't hurt you, only real threats can. What is there to be scared of?

If you don't do things out of fear, you'll never grow as a person.
 

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Groovy said:
Never EVER be passive. IF you know what's right, DO IT even if it scares you to death!

Feelings can't hurt you, only real threats can. What is there to be scared of?
^^^^ That right there basically sums it up,

Couldn't agree with you any more Groovy! :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Groovy

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Hehe, nice :D I'm glad you agree!
 
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