"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Motivation for you fatties

LimaBean

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I was once there too. 80-90lbs overweight, looked terrible, felt terrible. Finally broke up with my girl that I was dating and decided I needed a change. This was around 3.5 years ago. I was weighing 300 lbs and started back light at the gym. It was hard.
Prior to me being McCaulay bulkin I was athletic, in shape, played multiple sports, etc. wound up in a bad relationship and it went down hill from there.
Anyways, I started going to the gym, didn't go too heavy and didn't even diet. I saw massive improvements. Within a year I was down to 250lbs. My gains started dwindling and decided I needed to change something up. Added in cardio, some high intensity workouts and even more weight started to drop. Over the next year or so I was weighing roughly 225-230 lbs.
Finally decided it was time to dial in my diet and become the man I wanted to be. Over the last 6-8 months I have been quite consistent as far as what I needed to put in my body for optimal nutrition and weight loss. I'm currently weighing 220 lbs and admittedly still have a little ways to go to finish up on the six pack.

I guess the main thing I really wanted to say is that you need to stay consistent with what you want. Don't give up on your goals, this includes everything in your life. Yes it was hard, but it was damn worth it. I get looks every single day from women and the men in the gym envy me. If only they knew what I looked like just under 4 years ago. No one would bat an eye in my direction. Now I get respect from coworkers, family members, women, men - in any social circumstance.
If my fat arse at 300 lbs could do it while working 84 hours a week, you can to. Give up on the excuses, fight the anxiety, and become a better you.
Here is a before and after, can post more in between if requested.
https://ibb.co/kj2n2k
https://ibb.co/doDia5
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bullgoose

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Well done man !

Came down from 260 to 175 myself and was past 35 years old when i started.

Top three things that did it for me

1. Stopping alcohol (beer a killer !)
2. Dump processed food
3. Training boxing/muay thai

We all have the power to do it ! Be a fanatic.
 
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