Hi,
I am not fluent in English.
We broke up very badly 2 weeks ago, and I had our son with me in the first time. I never begged her to come back.
She got our 2 years old son 2 days ago by a judge decision.
Since she came back her friends home with my son, she started to act crazily. Tried to called so many times in the middle in the night. The day after I was having a phone called with some people, in the same time, she tried to call me. She tried 7 times. Then she sent an SMS to know who I was talking to. I said my auntie, which was true.
She started to insulted me for 20 minutes because she was sure I've got a new girl in my life, which is false.
This morning, I told her that she could come back home and we could try to be good parents for our son. She told me that she couldn't look at me or stay with me because she still loves me.
Today, she tries to call me and I answered sometimes to talk with my baby. I know there is nothing about our son. She is from Thailand and she care herself in the first place.
I still love her of course. I'd like to have my child come back at home.
I don't know how to handle it. How can I get her back home ? Do I need to answer all her calls ?
The fact is that her life now is very hard. This is not her country, she doesn't speak the language, she has no money, has to take care of a 2 years old, she lives with people (half my country - half Thai) that just want to help her to get a new life. She stays in a remote location with nothing to do, it is very cold, and the people can't help her so much.
I really want her and my son to come back home.
I am not fluent in English.
We broke up very badly 2 weeks ago, and I had our son with me in the first time. I never begged her to come back.
She got our 2 years old son 2 days ago by a judge decision.
Since she came back her friends home with my son, she started to act crazily. Tried to called so many times in the middle in the night. The day after I was having a phone called with some people, in the same time, she tried to call me. She tried 7 times. Then she sent an SMS to know who I was talking to. I said my auntie, which was true.
She started to insulted me for 20 minutes because she was sure I've got a new girl in my life, which is false.
This morning, I told her that she could come back home and we could try to be good parents for our son. She told me that she couldn't look at me or stay with me because she still loves me.
Today, she tries to call me and I answered sometimes to talk with my baby. I know there is nothing about our son. She is from Thailand and she care herself in the first place.
I still love her of course. I'd like to have my child come back at home.
I don't know how to handle it. How can I get her back home ? Do I need to answer all her calls ?
The fact is that her life now is very hard. This is not her country, she doesn't speak the language, she has no money, has to take care of a 2 years old, she lives with people (half my country - half Thai) that just want to help her to get a new life. She stays in a remote location with nothing to do, it is very cold, and the people can't help her so much.
I really want her and my son to come back home.