jhonny9546
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This isn’t the only example; I know women whom I’ve known since they were 15, they’re 45 now, and they’ve gone from being 6s to being 8s.
It doesn’t happen to everyone, but there are exceptions.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Most women hit the wall in their 30's, but few, actually don't
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This isn’t the only example; I know women whom I’ve known since they were 15, they’re 45 now, and they’ve gone from being 6s to being 8s.
It doesn’t happen to everyone, but there are exceptions.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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In my early 30's I dated many attractive girls that were 35-45. It was kind of a niche group on the dating apps, many of them did some form of modeling in their prime. Most of the guys my age didn't want these girls because of their age. The women in this age group didn't want the guys in their age group because most of them weren't in shape. So lets just say I found a "honey hole" of talent to pick from.
Most of the time its girls that can look 10yrs younger than they actually are, have good genetics, and take care of their skin.
Very few look good after 50. Skin only stays elastic for so long and eventually gravity wins.
Most of the time its girls that can look 10yrs younger than they actually are, have good genetics, and take care of their skin.
Very few look good after 50. Skin only stays elastic for so long and eventually gravity wins.
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Depends on from what angle you look at it.
If you know or knew a woman in her 20's and meet her again 10 years later ...she might've declined. But if you meet her for the first time at lets say 34 she can still ne sexy, pretty have charisma ect.
I do have to say that its sometimes staggering to see how cruel father time can be...one "superpower " that men CAN devolpe is the knowledge of understanding that that pretty woman will definitely get less pretty as time moves on. Great way to get over a woman you've fancied...
If you know or knew a woman in her 20's and meet her again 10 years later ...she might've declined. But if you meet her for the first time at lets say 34 she can still ne sexy, pretty have charisma ect.
I do have to say that its sometimes staggering to see how cruel father time can be...one "superpower " that men CAN devolpe is the knowledge of understanding that that pretty woman will definitely get less pretty as time moves on. Great way to get over a woman you've fancied...
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Weisz was at her most beautiful in pics 1-2. Girl's success at avoiding the wall was less remarkable than John Walsh's efforts at winding his way through fatherhood uneventfully
In any event though:
Entirely too many folks of both genders create and then cling to delusions of having "made it" once their 3rd decade of life rolls around, cease putting effort into themselves, and subsequently degenerate. Not surprising then that most don't hold up well
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.