"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Most women/girls are nasty to one another...

mahon83050

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This may be kind of a pointless post, but I find it interesting.


I come to this conclusion based on what my female friends say and the dirty looks I see other women give each other.

Many of them of said: "I prefer to have guy friends, since women are so caddy."

"We (women) rip each other apart inside our heads"

"I hate other girls, we are very competetive and jealous"

As we know, alot of women are caddy and I think always compare themselves to one another and are jealous of one another more so than men are.

Time and time again when riding the MBTA "T" or subway in Boston, I will see an attractive girl/woman get on, and then notice other girls look her up and down with dirty looks or scowls on their faces.

Men don't do these things.

I remember getting bullied in middle school by other boys and always used to think...."Gee, girls are so lucky, they are so friendly and sweet to one another." BOY WAS I WRONG!

I know girls say alot of nice things to each other, but I bet 75% of it is fake.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yes, this is true -- if men confront each other there is going to be a fight and that will be the end of it! Women have more jealousy and envy towards one anorher - they always try to impress others and get attention for their egos!!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Yes, this is true -- if men confront each other there is going to be a fight and that will be the end of it!
Especially if the other dude is dead :D
 

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Oh yeah. girls are nasty.

They live to socially destroy other girls. its brutal.
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
Oh yeah. girls are nasty.

They live to socially destroy other girls. its brutal.
So true.

Honestly and truthfully, I'd rather be a man with the aggression and physical violence then a womens world.

They are the worst to each other, good friends will drop each other in a heart beat. Sometimes I just think that they can't help it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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