"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Most pimpest/smoothest thing you ever said to your gf?

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aznxboi

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That made their face light up, and have a big smile on their face? Lets have a good post, rally up on this topic shall we? :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is a post in the archive called "your smoothest move". Check it out.
 
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the smoothest thing i ever done to a girl (that i got the most reaction out of) was when i complemented this girl before she got her picture taken, she was worried about her hair and i said her hair looked fine--WOW! she was all over me after that
 
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the second most smoothest move i ever made (or was it first?) was when i bought nice looking shoes and sharp looking clothing, i came into school and i got about 500% more female attention----lesson #1 spend time dressing yourself and look your best every day lesson #2 nice shoes are very important to attracting women, they notice your shoes right away
 
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