"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Most of You Will Suck Forever - But It's YOUR Choice

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I haven't visited this site in months. I don't even have much time to stay. Just looking at the main board, you can see why 99% of you guys will suck balls for life.

1) It is seriously not such a big deal. Boy + Girl = Sex. Comprendes? Why is it so damn complicated for you? The more thought and concern you put into it, the more importance it carries and the more you will feel uncomfortable doing all these things like eye contact, kino, kissing, etc. Just let it go, it's natural. You already have it all in you. There's nothing to "learn." You have the penis, the girl has the vagina, and they fit together like legos.

2) Life is too short. Most of you would agree with this statement, but your actions would contradict it. You keep preaching the carpe diem bull but if you really GOT IT, you wouldn't post half the crap you post here.

Let me give you some perspective. No matter who you are in this world, we all have the same destiny or fate. It's called DEATH. You will die, and so will I. We'll all die someday, it's only a matter of time - some sooner than others.

As a human race, sure we have things such as "logic" and "civilization," etc, but we are no different from cats and dogs and any other animal that has a life. Our lives can not only be cut short by artificial causes, we even succumb to killing each other unlike any other animal.

I don't know about you, but I don't give a **** about life after death. You have one life.

One does not mean two. Let me repeat: YOU ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE. And hey, to some life may be a game, but when you die, you can't start over.

Some **** is just not worth it. I treasure my life and appreciate it very much.

DO NOT LIVE IN REGRET.

Point being, if you only have one life do whatever you want. You don't want to look back and regret something. You don't have 15 other lives to live over again. Today will be gone forever. Cherish the moment and do whatever.

You have dreams?

Live them. Make all your wishes and fantasies come true. Your life is everything you make of it.

F what your parents say you should do. F what your boss says. F the f'n world. Do what YOU want today. Live like you've never lived before. Of course you should be aware of consequences. In fact, it's stupid to be reckless and end up in jail because that would waste what little time you have on this earth in a cell doing nothing.

F you too. I couldn't care less what you think of this thread. Most of you would probably flame it anyway, and that's why I don't give a **** what you think. Unfortunately, probably most of those who get what I'm saying are the ones who already get it.

I don't give a **** about respect, about hate, about love - it's all choice. You choose to feel what you want to feel from what happens to you. You don't HAVE TO get angry at anyone. You don't have to feel stressed or frustrated.

You don't have to be a P U S S Y, you CAN grow a pair.

That's my whole message to you. The fact that you make attracting women so difficult is a CHOICE. Because after all it is natural. There is at least one woman attracted to all of us, and to put more thought into something so trivial is silly. You could die tomorrow. Or one minute from now. No one knows.

Go with your gut instinct in life. Don't be hesitant, be damn bold. Be a man, no matter how short, bald, ugly, or fat you are - you are still a MAN.

Every single paragraph of this post contains a powerful message. Read it over until it gets in your brain.

Life is too damn short to sit here and discuss if looks matter, if penis size matters, if eye contact matters, if you are bald and short, if you should call her, whatever.

Even you are filthy rich, when you die, you die. Same way a homeless guy dies. Except you may be remembered if you did something. Who cares?

Life is short.

It's your choice whether you decide to live it, or simply exist until you die. Either way, you're going to die.

Live it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Me thinks he came to this realization about himself and needed to expound on it. Just a thought. :whistle:
 

Bvbidd

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No fvcking sh!t. It's still a good message..

But lol, haven't been here in months Amahoodforealz? lol You just joined last month.
 

Trapper

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seems you are vacationing in an imaginary land.. come to the real world ..ignorance the facts doe not change the facts.. life is not that much easy.... your perception is somewhat wrong..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mac_Laaarry

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This guy s an azz. Why post if you really don't give a F? Stop wasting our time with this babble and get along with your great Fing life. " just joined last month" that is funny Vidd.
 

bearfan34201

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I like this quote.


"take a risk, take a chance. You're going to be wondering... In 20 years.. Why did'nt I do something exciting with my life?"


Resembles what you are saying.
 

BingoBango

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This post is fantastic. Fvck the flamers - if u dont like the thread, dont comment.

I have got DRAMATICALLY better with girls within the last 6 months because it is my fvcking choice. I have a loser friend who got into the community at the same time as me - he has got fvcking no where coz he is fvcking loser and that is his choice.

My message is to know when to stop being analytical and sh!t. Coz it's that nerdy analytical sh!i that made u sh!t with girls in the first place. Girls dont like to think - they like to feel.

Know what u fvcking want (long term & short term), and fvcking go after it with everything u've got. Nap Hill is right: it all comes down to DESIRE.
 

Tha Realnezz

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I agree..

These guys have extra-high standards & wanna **** models when most of them don't have jobs and live at home.Yet they type up here that they are prize or some****..

Alot of these guys need to hit the gym and get a whole new wardrobe game together,some of them have psychological issues from bullying,bad mothers and the like and have been basically neutered for life menatlly-speaking.

Real talk,most guys here need to talk to a shrink and women should be the last thing on their minds
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Now onto those who can be saved:

First off this site put women on a pedestal,women ain't ****.They're crazy,shallow & lack self-control.

They're not what they are cracked up to be at all & most women are flat out useless *****s who are only good for sex & head.

Once you get that through your head,that women are nothing to write home about then you can progess.

I don't know any REAL,REAL player types that hangout with women that don't fawk or plan on fawking,I don't any player types that want an LTR let alone kids & marriage just ONS's and sex with hot women.

Two,these guys have EXTRA-EXTRA HIGH UNREALISTIC STANDARDS.Like I said above women ain't **** & ***** is *****.I know all of us here have turned down fine women cuz we assume God has something better for us down the road yet the road never seems to ****ing end.

Before you know it a year has gone by and you haven't fawked any model-types(in your opinion) and you regret every single hot chic you turned down for sex.

Seriously stop ranking women cuz it's ****ing gay.They are either fawkable,not fawkable.Average,ugly,or pretty.Thick or skinny,etc..You either will stick it in her or won't.

Thirdly,for the last time being you need balance.You shouldn't be a jerk or a nice guy.You need to be a MAN.

You need to be a lil' bit of both.C and F won't work on some girls especially if you're not attractive in the least.But once the date has been set and you're still acting like Mr.Mystery girls will assume you're not interested or a boring person.

You need balance & you need to figure out what works on which type of girl.

The End.
 

Production6257

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BingoBango said:
[My message is to know when to stop being analytical and sh!t. Coz it's that nerdy analytical sh!i that made u sh!t with girls in the first place.]

Very very true. Sometimes I feel like this site made me worse. This site makes people think waay too much about stupid sh*t when they should just be enjoying themselves. I even find myself worrying about dumba$$ things like when I'm walking past girls, i think "OK, I need to hold good eye contact, hold my head up high, stand up straight, but act indifferent and interested at the same time". It's enough to make someone's head explode! But in reality, it doesn't fvcking matter. Just live your dam life and stop worrying about ridiculous stuff like that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KoalaKing

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I strongly agree with the majority of your post except for the fact that you don't give a sh-it about the after life.

The fact that my life can end at any moment in time would make me think seriously about what is going to happen to me after I die, so I can't really understand that statement.

I do understand though that so many guys veiw the alluring of gorgeous girls as an impossibility, a fantasy, and a huge badge of honour if they are able to win over the affections of one.

It is obvious to me that many of the guys who write on here veiw woman such as, Keira Knightly and Tera Patrick, as a PRIZE high above themselves, where as I just veiw them as being EQUALS to every other woman and myself, after all they are still attracted to men and desire to have one in their lives.

The bottom line is if you think about woman all of the time then it is going to make you so much more nervous when you actually meet them.

Even the best champion sports stars relax and do other things when they are not training for and playing their particular sports, because they know that if they only ever think about their days in competition that it will only make them more nervous about it when they are actually playing the game.

The ways in which most guys talk, fantasize, and brag about the hottest babes that they fu-ck makes me think that their must be 1000 pretty girls to every 1 guy, but it isn't like that at all.

Girls need guys just as much as guys need girls, so there is no need to think about ways of picking them up 24/7.

The guys who have the most success in picking up the hottest babes hardly ever think about it at all, they veiw themselves as being equals or even of a much higher value than they do the hottest babes who they desire to fu-ck, they don't waste their time reading e books on how to become Alpha Males or continuously visit Don Juan websites, they going out surfing, fishing, or whatever, but when they get the chance to pick up a pretty girl they speak to her with the confidence that is required to allure her. :yes:
 

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Tha Realnezz said:
I agree..

These guys have extra-high standards & wanna **** models when most of them don't have jobs and live at home.Yet they type up here that they are prize or some****..


You put your name in as The Realnezz. Seriously. Why are you looking down on others when your name is The Realnezz?
 
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