"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Most girls really are *****s

The Sperminator

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I didn't believe it. I know you guys have been saying most are but I really thought most girls were faithful. Yeah I know I'm stupid. Bull**** they are. The last 3 girls I went out with had bfs and no I didn't know about them. I found out about them from other people. I didn't have sex with any of them but I did kiss them. One of them I got in bed and made out with her and felt her up but when I went for the sex she was like I can't I have a boyfriend. WTF why didn't you tell me this **** before. Man I was never the jealous type before but now when I get a gf I'm going to be jealous and paranoid as hell.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Incog

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In before LMS:

Hors!!
 

ready123

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how old are you and how old are they

also if you made it that far, just tell the girl that you're not gonna tell anyone and you're gonna keep it discrete. sometimes that's all they need to hear
 

Interceptor

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"Girls" are immature.
They are learning about themeselves by how they interact with males.
They are experimenting with their sexuality, and how to manipulate males.
They do not have enough life expereince to act with high class and charater.
Most females do not have strong, high character Femenine Role Models.


Here's something that ALL Males must know;

A female may be a Girl or a Woman or a Lady.

Most of your problems will be because you deal with Females/"girls".

A Female might not be a Woman.

A Woman might not be a Lady.

Most of your Negative experiences will be because you are dealing with Females, NOT "Ladies".

Women at least have an edge on the Female.

But a Lady is what you should be on the lookout for.


And I will reiterate:

ALways, always, ALWAYS Qualify the female you're with. She is either LTR material or NOT.

Do not get upset if the non LTR material behaves like NON LTR MATERIAL.
And never have such weak Personal Boundary that you actually let a Female get to you.





Never confuse a 'girl' for a LADY.
 

DonJuan11

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The Sperminator said:
I didn't believe it. I know you guys have been saying most are but I really thought most girls were faithful. Yeah I know I'm stupid. Bull**** they are. The last 3 girls I went out with had bfs and no I didn't know about them. I found out about them from other people. I didn't have sex with any of them but I did kiss them. One of them I got in bed and made out with her and felt her up but when I went for the sex she was like I can't I have a boyfriend. WTF why didn't you tell me this **** before. Man I was never the jealous type before but now when I get a gf I'm going to be jealous and paranoid as hell.
Kissing is OK if the girl has a bf, but not Sex. I would kiss as many girls as I could if I had a girlfriend. But if I was sleeping with her, I wouldn't sleep with any other girls.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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oakraiderz2

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DonJuan11 said:
Kissing is OK if the girl has a bf, but not Sex. I would kiss as many girls as I could if I had a girlfriend. But if I was sleeping with her, I wouldn't sleep with any other girls.
Thats still cheating bro.
 

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I've always cheated on my girlfriends. But they weren't ladies. I would never cheat on a lady, the day I find her, it's just me and her.
 

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Honestly, you can tell the type of girl you are dating by your deeper conversations, after you are going out with her of course. You can really tell if shes the type that would run off whenever the opportunity arrives and bang every "hot guy" in her path.

Sperminator, try to find a tendency with those three girls in the way that they talked that shows that they are immature. Trust me, with some experience you'll find some of the cues so you will USUALLY not end up dating such a horish girl in the first place!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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romangod

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The Sperminator said:
Man I was never the jealous type before but now when I get a gf I'm going to be jealous and paranoid as hell.

Good for you. That should make things work out really well. :box:
 
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