"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Most alpha name ever

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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So while on the train, I was bored and began searching up what are the most alpha names ever. And in doing so, I found one that I think tips the list:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manley_Power

The dude was an alpha too.

So anyway, what are some other names you think are badass just the same? Here, I’ll start:

Brock
Ace
Max/Maximus
Dash
Magnus/Magnussen
Leonidus
Thor
Hunter
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I know a man named "Alpha". And he is, too.
 

Bokanovsky

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Brock
Ace
Max/Maximus
Dash
Magnus/Magnussen
Leonidus
Thor
Hunter
Most of these sound like names you would give to a dog. If I met someone who introduced himself as Maximus, Magnus or Thor, it'd be hard to resist chuckling.
 

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Most of these sound like names you would give to a dog. If I met someone who introduced himself as Maximus, Magnus or Thor, it'd be hard to resist chuckling.
I thought the same.... good power trip from the Greatest ;) (teasing you)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've known a Magnus and a Thor. Both were alpha with men, but not so much with women. One's view of a name is shaped by people you have known with that name.
 
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