more than friends????

[churchwin77]

Ok I have known this girl since like February where we both liked each other but I was talking to another girl at the time so I kinda didnt go after her but we stayed in touch and did stuff together every once in awhile...but then for about 2 months we didnt talk anymore then just bout 3 weeks ago we started talking and we having been doin stuff together and now im startin to like this girl again...and i kinda get the feelin she likes me more than friends because just the other day she mentioned to me on aol that she had a dream about me then she told me something but she said she wouldnt finish it because she said it would put ideas in my head and then right after that she asked me what i tought her... and i told her the truth...i only said that she was cool to hang around...she was funny...then i mentioned she was pretty too but ive already told her that in the past...but i think i might have screwed up tellin her that again...but anyways last night she calls me and tells me that her and her friend are bored and want me to come over so i went over later on which was kinda borin cuz they were messin around on her laptop so i just sat in her bed and watched some tv but the whole time we kept flirtin...like she would lay on the bed too with her friend and would sit by my legs cuz i had them stretched out at the end of the bed and she would keep pullin my leg hair or smack my legs so i would smack her ass or pinch it...and she would keep sittin on my crotch or my legs...and when i said something stupid and made her laugh she would always lean back on chest and rest her head or she would lean across my legs of the bed...then she sat in the floor and leaned up on the bed pressin her nice big tits on my legs...but yeah theres the story now i wanna know if its possible to go from bein friends to bf/gf...cuz i really like this girl but i dont know exactly what to do in this situation...like should i ask her what she see in us or what i dont know i dont wanna sound weird around her and screw it up...I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO DO...please help anyone...thank you for any good advice

 

[MacdaddyJr]

okay, heres what you do. I did this and it worked. Ask her to hangout with you one-on-one friendly hangout, right. Go do something fun like playing pool or a bowling or mini-golf or something with action. Flirt a lot. See where it goes and try to kiss her later on if your getting the signals. Take her on a date without her even knowing it. But she will catch-on and will be like "churchwin, I had such a great time, your so sexy! Let me be your girl!". If you just approach her then it will be wierd and make her lean more toward no then yes. You got to make it romantic, like it was spur of the moment when you both realized you liked eachother while hanging out. Be smooth and she'll be yours without question. The fact that she told you about the ex asking her out again is to get you take action and go out with her. She trying to make it look like she's a catch that you should want. Thats my two cents.

Peace

 

[churchwin77]

hey thanks a lot for the help...i never thought of it like that...also last night she gave me a call and asked what i was doing and i said nothing so she said we should rent a movie and watch it at my place which was cool with me...but only thing is she took some tylenol pm before she called cuz she had to get up at 5 for work(which she has done many times in the past)...so the whole time she was kinda drousy but we still flirted a lot...and tonight me, her, and some friends are goin haunted housing so here is another place too where we can keep touchin each other...if anyone has any good haunted housing tips like usin kino or and c+f jokes...let me know please thanks

 

[Psycho`Sexual]

Your first mistake...

was to assume that a girl friend isnt a person you can phuck.


Female friends are your friends because of an attraction.

Male friends are friends because of a NON SEXUAL attraction.


"Being more than friends" involves being exclusive. In other words, SHE IS THE ONLY ONE YOU CAN PHUCK.

Being friends, on the other hand, has all the advantages of sex, without the disadvantages of drama and BS.

The second mistake you are about to make is "talking to her."

Are you a girl?

No. They TALK with their girl friends.

They "do stuff" with their boy friends.

Get her alone and kiss her. And what happens is what will happen. If she wants to be exclusive and thats what you want, then fine.

Either way, nothing says that you cannot kiss your girl friends...

To sum up, DO things, and stop being a girl about it.


If you want her, then go and do it.

 

[MacdaddyJr]

Stop, make your move soon. Otherwise she'll lose interest. You need to kiss her to see if she feels the same. When she came over to watch a movie you should have kissed her when you were flirting alone. I hope that you don't get LJBF. Also, make sure she isn't just a flirt. If she acts the same way with most of the guys she probably doesn't like you like that. Their's a difference between friendly and non friendly flirting. If you can get close, get her to sit on your lap or cuddle then you should take the chance. Be careful though, if you value her as a friend then be sure not to make it awkward between you two if she says no if possible.

Also about kino and the cf. You'll find ways of working it into the thing tonite. There's nothing I can tell you to do except one thing, grab her ass. Don't make it look like an accident. do it. See how she reacts. She may like it and flirt back. If she doesn't move or say anything then that probably means she wants you. That is, if she doesn't react and ignores your ass grabbing and lets you keep it there. I say keep it there until she moves or does something. Don't grab hard though. The ass can be a ticklish spot on a girl.

 

[churchwin77]

well update on this story...last night i got to talking to my friend who had been talking to her on the internet until sunday night...which me and that girl were supposed to do something but i had to cut my grandpas grass that evening and i didnt get home till like 8 then i called her at like 9 after i got ready...and i told her that we werent gonna stay here cuz i had been with my parents all weekend out of town and that i wasnt driving cuz my change oil light was on...and she said that i couldnt come over and that she couldnt drive cuz she had no gas...so we decided not to do anything...then last night i talk to my friend and he starts asking me bout her and all this...then i tell him some stuff bout her and then i ask why and he's like well she came over last night and today...and shes talkin bout how much she likes me and all this so i was like wtf...then he i tell him how i had been talkin to her too and he said well i asked her bout u and she said that u were only a friend...then he calls her and wakes her up to ask her all this so she gets on aol...talkin **** to me...and i was like wtf are u gettin mad at me for...ur the one who brung all this **** out...then i asked her bout us and all the flirting and the hangin out and she was like i didnt know it was a crime to flirt and kept sayin that she was single that she could do that...i was like well it is when u lead someone and dont mean anything buy it...then she was like well i never meant to lead u on...but this has really done a number on me...and i dont know if i should just not talk to her anymore since it would be wierd if we did do stuff together...or if i should tell her we can stay friends and hang out occasionally...please someone help me or talk to me...my sn in churchwin(AOL)

 

[NEWBIE101]

This girl digs you buddy you need to show that you're interested soon or she'll just assume you're not interested and move on. I've made the mistake of waiting before.

Ask her to come over or you guys can do something this weekend. If you guys are flirting again then just go for it. Keep the kino high this week though and call her one night just so she doesn't give up on you.

 

[icallug]

same thing happened to me...me and this girl are really close, we became best friends over the summer and i made my move when i first met her, i got rejected, so i just became friends with her after that, and the flirting was high same with the kino. well late summer arrives, after being just friends we snuck out one night while i was sleeping over at a buds house, she came over and we were in a room by ourselves cuz the other guy was sleeping, we ended up doing stuff, even her mom said that she thought the both of us had sexual tension. we knew we did but i thought she didnt want to do things and she thought i didnt want to do things, so best bet is just to go for it

 

[churchwin77]

well now i cant because my friend went and asked her a bunch of **** bout her and she thinks that i told him that stuff...so now she freakin hates me and doesnt wanna have anything to do with me...and i think she likes him a whole lot more considering since she kissed him after they hung out only 2 times and we hung for 5 days and wouldnt let me...so now i told him to set things straight with her and tell her the truth...and that he better make her happy like he said he would or hes gonna have it comin to him...cuz he said he wants a relationship with her but i told him he better not triple f her...cuz that wont go over good with me and my friends