Superman X
Banned
1. The dining hall -- Always go to the dining hall by yourself, don't fall into the trap of always going with the same people over and over. When I go there, what I do is I get my food, then walk around the whole place once, looking for a good target. What makes a good target? I look for hot girls, sitting alone, who just began eating. It's better to sit with someone who just began eating, so she won't have to leave thirty seconds after you sit down. And if she's alone, she know she wants someone to talk to, and while groups can be receptive to, a single person is more likely to be. If I can't get a single, I'll look for a two-set, then a three-set, and so on. Just go up to them, and ask "Do you mind if I sit here?" Nobody EVER says no to that. Then just introduce yourself, and you're in.
2. The dorm Just wander into rooms which have their doors open, and introduce yourself. The trick is not to act like a stranger or a door-to-door salesman, act like you know them, plop down on their bed and just chill with them. Another good place in the dorm is doing laundry. Everyone just sits there bored for a about half and hour, all the girls wishing a sexy guy like you would come talk to them. So do it! Ask for help on how to do your laundry, because if you're anything like me, you probably actually need it.
3. Parties -- Everybody is drunk or a little tipsy, so chances are this won't lead to anything long-term. I've noticed it's 100x easier to introduce yourself to a group if you know someone in the group, rather than just going up cold. Even if you just met them five minutes ago, from doing the same thing to another group. Event though hardly anyone dances at frat parties, I like to be the one to pull a girl aside and just start dancing in front of everyone! It's a blast, and dancing is great for kino and for creating attraction. At parties is a different game than regularly, you have to be louder and more entertaining. Get the group's attention focused on you with your crazy stories, dance skills, or whatever entertaining thing that you do. Stuff like magic, rapping, dancing, which would come off as cheesy and try-hard in the real world is OK at parties. #s you get at parties won't be of much value, try and get the girl to do something with you RIGHT THEN.
Which brings me to a side note: I've gotten dozens of numbers at college, but I've called maybe five or six of them, and got flaked out on by a few of those. You should always try to get the girl to go do something with you right after you meet her, then grab the number only as a last resort.
4. Clubs -- Clubs are great for attraction, terrible for rapport. I've made out with girls on the dancefloor, only to have them give me a fake number or simply ditch me later. I'm going to try to get a girl outside to talk the next time I go. I've noticed also that I might as well go to clubs alone, becuase I just end up dancing with the group I go with for about three songs, then I split with them and go look for new girls. You're going to get rejected A LOT in clubs, but if you have the balls to take the rejections, then you can be grinding/making out with hot girls all night.
5. Street -- On the long walk to class in the morning, I have nothing to do, so I usually try and find a nice young lady to chat with. Street is, IMO, the hardest venue in college, because you don't have that much time to talk to her, and because a lot of girls get intimidated by guys who just come up and talk to her on the street. However, I always try to do it anyways, because I get really bored walking by myself for half an hour. This is a good way to meet older girls, if you live in a freshman dorm.
Side note: The older the girl, the higher the ***** shield, it seems. Most freshman girls love to meet new people, but by the time they become sophs, they're less open to new guys. I've actually had great convos with seniors, but I've some who wouldn't give me the time of day. I was actually talking to a sophomore girl about the concept of a ***** shield, pointing out this senior who I'd tried to talk to before in the row ahead of us in lecture.
Dan: See her up there all like "Ooh, I'm a senior, I don't have to talk to all you lowly freshman in here!"
HBsoph: Yeah I know! She's so unfriendly, blah blah
Dan: You're going to be just like that in two years!
HBsoph: No I won't!
Dan: Yeah you will! Girls get like that because guys hit on them all the time, they get like a shield of *****iness around them to protect them. See her shield of *****iness if all intimidating and ****, but yours in just like a cute little mini-***** shield.
HBsoph: hahahahaha
Anybody who has other favorite venues, post them.
-Dan
2. The dorm Just wander into rooms which have their doors open, and introduce yourself. The trick is not to act like a stranger or a door-to-door salesman, act like you know them, plop down on their bed and just chill with them. Another good place in the dorm is doing laundry. Everyone just sits there bored for a about half and hour, all the girls wishing a sexy guy like you would come talk to them. So do it! Ask for help on how to do your laundry, because if you're anything like me, you probably actually need it.
3. Parties -- Everybody is drunk or a little tipsy, so chances are this won't lead to anything long-term. I've noticed it's 100x easier to introduce yourself to a group if you know someone in the group, rather than just going up cold. Even if you just met them five minutes ago, from doing the same thing to another group. Event though hardly anyone dances at frat parties, I like to be the one to pull a girl aside and just start dancing in front of everyone! It's a blast, and dancing is great for kino and for creating attraction. At parties is a different game than regularly, you have to be louder and more entertaining. Get the group's attention focused on you with your crazy stories, dance skills, or whatever entertaining thing that you do. Stuff like magic, rapping, dancing, which would come off as cheesy and try-hard in the real world is OK at parties. #s you get at parties won't be of much value, try and get the girl to do something with you RIGHT THEN.
Which brings me to a side note: I've gotten dozens of numbers at college, but I've called maybe five or six of them, and got flaked out on by a few of those. You should always try to get the girl to go do something with you right after you meet her, then grab the number only as a last resort.
4. Clubs -- Clubs are great for attraction, terrible for rapport. I've made out with girls on the dancefloor, only to have them give me a fake number or simply ditch me later. I'm going to try to get a girl outside to talk the next time I go. I've noticed also that I might as well go to clubs alone, becuase I just end up dancing with the group I go with for about three songs, then I split with them and go look for new girls. You're going to get rejected A LOT in clubs, but if you have the balls to take the rejections, then you can be grinding/making out with hot girls all night.
5. Street -- On the long walk to class in the morning, I have nothing to do, so I usually try and find a nice young lady to chat with. Street is, IMO, the hardest venue in college, because you don't have that much time to talk to her, and because a lot of girls get intimidated by guys who just come up and talk to her on the street. However, I always try to do it anyways, because I get really bored walking by myself for half an hour. This is a good way to meet older girls, if you live in a freshman dorm.
Side note: The older the girl, the higher the ***** shield, it seems. Most freshman girls love to meet new people, but by the time they become sophs, they're less open to new guys. I've actually had great convos with seniors, but I've some who wouldn't give me the time of day. I was actually talking to a sophomore girl about the concept of a ***** shield, pointing out this senior who I'd tried to talk to before in the row ahead of us in lecture.
Dan: See her up there all like "Ooh, I'm a senior, I don't have to talk to all you lowly freshman in here!"
HBsoph: Yeah I know! She's so unfriendly, blah blah
Dan: You're going to be just like that in two years!
HBsoph: No I won't!
Dan: Yeah you will! Girls get like that because guys hit on them all the time, they get like a shield of *****iness around them to protect them. See her shield of *****iness if all intimidating and ****, but yours in just like a cute little mini-***** shield.
HBsoph: hahahahaha
Anybody who has other favorite venues, post them.
-Dan
