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[organizedconfusion]

i have read and watched almost all the seduction material out there..most of the newer stuff actually (04-05 materials) so i decided to stop it all and venture off into the unknown..The field.I lived,learned and gathered up some interesting info through experiance,feedback and what i have seen and been through..here it goes.



-The alpha male equation-

they make it soo cut and dry, it's good basic info as a guideline or baseline but it certainly isn't an end to all as an archtype in attraction.Yes,the alpha male is attractive.But you could also be a beta male with an incredible sexual vitality and natural radiance of it that it would'nt even matter if you acted alpha or just a regular burping,armpit sniffing,Nascar race watchin dude
okay,be a leader,toughen up,make descisions,my way or the highway..okay dude,chill..lighten up already with the alpha non-sense ,K?
it's like guys that are just kinda figuring themselves out and trying to discover who they are have no other examples of being men then 'being alpha' or cavemen..umm,no.It's cool if thats who you and how you really are..but don't sell yourself short just yet.I think people are fine just the way they are,they just need to smooth out the edges and fix some problems..unless you are truly psychotic (in my case maybe:crazy: ) i don't think the problems are that bad...nothing that living la vida loca little can't fix
besides,alpha sh*t is like the sh*t in the military- they kinda force you to toughen up..you have to..your life depends on it.But in normal everyday life..that **** gets annoying ,it's like dude..lighten up,quite being such a stiff! in actuality,even if you could be an all acting all living alpha top dog..would you even want to all the time? imagine how much fun you would be if you were always such a control freak 24/7? it's cool if thats your deal but geezz..living is supposed to be about enjoyment and fun ,sure as well as being responsable and assertive to your needs..but not to an obsessive compulsive level.Then it just becomes ..well..weird.What kind of chick would want to even be around a guy like that anyways? all mechanical and ****,knowing that her 'word' or her way means nothing to him anyways?


The alpha-male equalizer?... sexual vitality?

from examples- the guys that i know that have the most success with girls have one thing in common..they have a strong sexual desire and natural ability to radiate it.They have beautyfull children and though they may not be all herculean men..they do have that strong sexual drive/vitality in them.So strong in fact that i am willing to say that most of the insecurities that most guys have are nearly absent in them..their desire to mate is stronger the fear of rejection (if any).Like the old saying goes,if you're good in bed and know how to fvck..that's all you really need to know to be good with woman
haven't you noticed that most of the guys that aren't that good in bed are also more insecure,tense,unsure of themselves more so then the guys that are perfectly cool and confident about it? it's as if sexuality has such a big role in this feeling.Girls aren't superhuman or anything..she can tell if a guy is good in bed or not just by looking at him..the same way we can tell a slut from a prude.It's not that difficult.They 'sense' this because they 'feel' it,they don't even have to think about it...either you make her hot or give her the creeps.It's ALL in your charactor your ability to attract to repel mates..
sexual vitality increases this attraction dramaticly.

you can be the biggest bum,loser,stealing,cankniving,bullsh*t artist out there..but if you can fvck-lay it down real good,trigger those intense feelings of desire in her..she's all yours ,even if she fights it menatlly..she'll be feinding for you physically and emotionally..that is the ultimate alpha equalizer..sexual vitality is it.Big,fat,tall,skinny..it dosen't matter- that sexual desire to mate is the key to attraction on most parts..it's as if it's a built in survival mechanism that triggers attraction.Its like i learned about in the wild kingdom,one alpha fvcks all the females.In life you see this all the time,the guys that get all the girls..their sexual tuning is right on and because of it,they naturally radiate attraction to girls everywhere they go..naturally and sub-conciously.

 

[organizedconfusion]

Charactor is destiny

so how does sexuality develop? namely masculine sexuality and energy?
hell if i know :crackup: it develops as energy i believe,energy that begins inward,in our habits, in our actions and thoughts..in our spirit.how does one come about gaining this drive to mate,drive to survive and become sexually aware and vital? only by giving it up..WHAT?! why on earth would you do that? well, you have to..if you ever want to be truly great in that department you have to grow in other areas..first.Trust me, i used to be sooo obsessed with sex,girls,porno,seduction,the game..all that stuff.But in the end i felt like i was just a sleezeball trying to seduce girls and have sex for validation..it's like i seeked to validate myself with sexual conquests.it got boring fast because there was no end to it.It's like playing a video game with a never ending level...it lacked purpose.and the pleasure dewindled.I needed challenge,so i did other things instead of focusing on sex,girls or relationships...worked on cars,got a new job,studied different subjects,getting different hobbies,worked out more..i get a more balanced life..and it had NOTHING to do with girls or sex.How does this improve my sexual energy and the way i was coming off in my appearance? my character,my overall being changed dramaticly..who i was changed.Instead of being some seduction guy ..i became a well rounded person with a rewarding and balanced life..and it showed in my charactor.Now when i meet a girl or notice one of my liking..since the habit of wanting to pick up was gone..the interactions were more 'real' and less concocted..it flowed more-
Because i was no longer thinking of either the outcome or the content.it's kinda like when you meet someone new (regardless of sex) and you're just being cool with them,chit chat so to speak.



BUILDING SEXUAL ENERGY

have you ever tried 'not choking the chicken'? and you actually counted the days? well,whacking off is fun to do..don't get me wrong and it's always fun with another dude..just kidding,bad joke sorry but if done regularly it can be damaging..first off it drains the gas in the tank,second -if orgasm through manual stimulation becomes habit and you nut in a minute for instant gratification...guess what happens when you have sex? also you may get used to that type of stimulation only..and when that happens,you're in trouble.I say,don't even think about it..sex,trying to quit jerking it..just stop the habit..workout,read a book ,stay busy ,take up a sport,learn a martial art..channel that sexual energy elsewhere.Imagine not even thinking about sex or whacking for a long time..Then all of a sudden you see that cute redhead and you feel that huge surge of sexual attraction rush through your body..now,what's more motivating for you to take action? that intense rush of sexual desire right then and there..or that feeling, you know that feeling..when you want to approach a girl but unsure of yourself? trust me, in the presence of intense sexual desire...that wanting to mate,that raging hard on you got,that tingly sensation all over your body right when you are taking your clothes off right before sex..that sexual anticipation,desire..will motivate you more then anything to say something.Since words being only 20% of meaning and 80% is body langauge..your message will be spoken loud and clear through your body for you at this point and you don't even have to try.
Instead of faking it or trying to send these signals conciously,by being in that sexually aroused state..you send signals automaticly and naturally without concious effort or thought into it.Much like being angry,sad,happy or depressed..just being in state creates all the natural cues without effort.
By not thinking about sex, it creates a void where that energy grows without disruption..when ignited the flames grow bigger and brigher because of the size it has grown when you left it untouched and left to heat up.
you don't have to be having sex all the time to be good at it..nor do you have to be good at it in order to have it.If the energy is there ,everything will take of itself.The most important thing is harvesting that energy correctly. i used to think it was about visualizing the perfect sexual outcome or mastering my orgasm or whatever technique it was..these were all draining my energy and wasting it away.Not until i quit..really quit and gave up on it conciously did it smack me right in the face when i least expected it to..and it hit real hard.Imagine not ever thinking about sex..ever,but when that one special girl comes around and you get that rush..you know that feeling..imagine how much more motivated you will feel to take action..imagine that sexual energy laying dormant inside of you suddenly becoming ignited wildly..imagine how you'd feel? THAT is the sexual energy ,that intense feeling is the place to be..and the one thing that will propell you into more sex/girls then you could possibly imagine..almost effortlessly.like attracts like,the more you experiance that joyfull feeling the more the mind recreates the situations,experiances and liklihood of it repeating that feeling and it happening over and over and over again..like a mental habit, a groove in a record..it seeks it out sub-conciously and effortlessly.Our minds seek either pleasure or pain and it remembers it ,recreating the same situations that brings about similar results..you can alter these patterns and habits.

long story short? get a few hobbies,play some sports,get your mind off sex,don't choke the chicken and get a life! Don't worry! when the right girls come along your psyche will seek them out for you and it'll do the rest

 

[organizedconfusion]

RECONTITION OF MUTUAL ATTRACTION

soooooooo many things on the seduction topic focuses soo much on content and which technique to execute.More like a set of rules and levels to mimic then anything else.It may work to pick them up initially if that's what your after,but have you ever notice that the girls that you don't really click with but can pull something over their heads to get them to feel attraction for you- that feeling waivers quickly as well? and that theres no real connection?
have you ever met a girl you 'really liked' but when after the intial routines or material you used to get her to feel attraction for you, and you tried to transition into doing what 'felt' right- things changed? have you noticed sometimes when you really liked a girl it was harder to pull material off on her then when you didn't like a girl but you knew she was into you? it's like you didn't care as much right? i think these are all pitfalls with the seduction material..because it all creates a type of pseudoattraction in place of natural attraction.It kinda blinds you from feeling and reacting on your natural drives.For instance, girls whom YOU find naturally appealing to you are most likely the ones you have the best chance of connection with,but girls that are looked upon as status sympols or a notch on a belt- that is pseudoattraction and even if you do pull the blinds over her eye,the EGO might be the only thing thats rewarding in that sexual interaction..because there is nothing there other then superficial sh*t anyways.I say,learn to reconize attraction and what YOU like,regardless of anything.
Mutual attraction is reconized instantly..learn how to reconize it and you are golden,most of the time you can even avoid rejection completly by learning to reconize cues on the spot,reconition of attraction,acknowledgment,reciveing of cues and the back and forth reciprication of it..these are all the things that happen UNIVERSALLY during natural interactions of attraction and can be learned and reconized..you just have to have to be aware enough to reconize it when it's happening.You most likely have been getting cues all the time and not even notice it..

okay, to put this an easier way..have you ever met someone that you just liked and hit it off..male,female it dosen't matter..they were just cool as fvck and you all just clicked.Well, with chicks theres that special thought hovering about like 'are we,aren't we gonna hook up?' .well, in both cases of male/female interactions..if you liked the person intially , you just kinda know -right? like you could just tell? that you were both on the same page and that there was a mutual interest.Same thing when you meet a girl intially,it's that same feeling ,that same vibe that speaks volumes of where it's heading and the type of future interactions with that person..you can kinda tell if there is mutual interest or not.If you can kinda sense that theres a conflict of interest or something shady..there most likely is,it's no biggie- we just sometimes clash with people..that's all.But in this equation of attraction,it plays a huge indicator of how the interaction will end up and if there is even a chance or not.in that case,why would you even want to get to know that person more? if you like a challenge , go for it..some guys are into that stuff and some girls do play 'hard to get' in that case it's better to play the game 'well who wants ya anyways':moon: besides,active disinterest usually baits them in - in this case NEGs are golden
but in terms of getting off the ground and getting the interaction started...mutual attraction is best,both short term and long term.Because that intial indicator of mutual interest is a good indicator of compadibility.Sure some PUAs like to have the ability to pick up 'anyone' -if thats your deal , go for it.But it's all BS if you ask me..why would i say that? because of the motives behind it,by then i say it's only for status,validation and 'oohh, look what i can do' mindset.It's more to satisfy the EGO than anything else...

 

[organizedconfusion]

LETTING GO..

imagine a life like so..you go to school,you go to work, you come home and chill..you have hobbies, you like sports, you work on your car, you watch anime and play video games, you have great friends.You don't even think about sex,girls or relationships..the thought dosen't even cross your mind.But when meeting and interacting with girls..it comes naturally and easily because you feel as if it's natural and you are confident in yourself.Natural feelings of attraction emerge because it's no longer under a microscope and the interactions aren't dissected or obsessed over..it just flows naturally and on it's own.You reconize attraction because you understand your emotions and feelings concerning it and you trust those feelings to do the rest for you.
How do these feelings come about? by conciously letting go of them,by making them neutral and absent, you take their reactive powers away from them..you take the power away and the entire situation loses it's pressure and you take off a ton of bricks off your back.The interaction and outcome becomes less and less of an issue and it simply does not matter.Because it dosen't really matter you are free to act genuinly and openly -making you omniattractive..to everyone.In the absense of reaction/validation seeking,you say and do as you wish..making you free from any confinement or censorship..you are genuinly free to not be yourself with flaws,but be yourself-the true self,regardless of your flaws.That is magneticly attractive.

It's like the only way to ever have anything you really really really want in life..is to loosen the grip,let it go a little-give it some slack..even let it go completly ,while working towards the ultimate vision- sometimes you need to destinguish the flames of desire just a little bit.It's like the more you chase something the further it's get's from your grasp.I say the best way to become successfull in the world of dating,girls and seduction is to learn about it..yes,through seduction materials-thats one part.Second,through understanding your true nature and trusting your intuition and emotions.Knowing what you want out of relationships and sex.And by not caring about it soo much..maybe even giving it up for awhile to gain some insight and perspective into your life.Building a great life..YOUR life.

all you need to do is be solid in your ground and that's about it.learn how to communicate your needs,be willing to accept obstacles and overcome them,do what needs to be done- be solid in who you are and where you stand..but also be willing to open your eyes if you become too rigid.