"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lordclem*

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hi guys i have this idea bouncing around in my head.
its to create a section where we deal with other things a dj does or might be interested in. or a recommed lists of books(48 laws of power) web pages(nlp,sex whatever).kinda like a libraby? it would be selp improvement,things that a dj would be happy to know (grooming,jobs)
I just think it would be cool to have a section on other stuff we dont usally cover of the dj lifestyle?
WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good idea. Would be useful. But to do that
maybe we should get rid of the success stories forum (special 'smilies' can show that a post is a success story in the discussion forum.)
 
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