"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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deleted. i was being an idiot.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i know how you feel man. my ex fvcked me over so bad it aint even funny. we were togther for almost 2 years and lived together for like 8 months. i know she was trouble when i met her but i didnt care. she did so much fvcked up sh!t when we were together. I let her know whats up everytime though. she went on vacation for a couple of weeks to see her family. she called me every other day probably and would just act *****y. she didnt even want me to let me pick her up from the airport and she didnt even let me know that she was going to stay longer. she came back and we talked worked things out sort of. i fvcked her and i could tell that someone elses d1ck was in there. so i suspected she cheated. but couldnt really prove anything. sh!t was ok for about a week. then i got fired from my job cause my manager was a pvssy. she started saying all this sh!t about how im not ambitious will have no money blah blah. and how i always yell at her. the only times i got pissed at her was when she was doing drugs and not coming home till 5 am w/out letting me know. shes a fvckin retard. she even told her parents that i yelled at her to bad they didnt know why.

so i tried to talk to her one day when we woke up and she refused. later that night i tried again and decided going out was more important so i just packed my sh!t and left. that was about a year ago. we talked a couple times we fvcked here and there then she stopped calling. I later found out that she started hanging out with a guy that was fvcking her two best friends when we were living together.
ive never had a chance to tell her how fvcked up she is and she knows it.
i saw her on new years with that dude and just walked by her without saying a word.

now im back at school getting my masters. she was getting hers when i was with her. typically it takes 2 years max shes been doing it for almost three years. i wasnt quite sure if she was still up here but i got my answer yesterday. we bumped into to each other on campus. i wanted to tell her how stupid she is but instead i was just being a d1ck. she said i saw you and i said i felt no need to say anything. then she said call me someitme and i said for what. sh!t like that. she knows im way better than that dude shes living with right now i think. i just wanna let her know that he aint sh!t and she is nothing. im better looking, better body, better car, better education etc. yesterday she said where do you live? oh you arent going to tell me. i replied with saying youre right i wont. so she knows shes fvcked up. im still kind of pissed but not too bad right now.

If i see her out at the bars i will ignore her of course and if she decides to come up to me i will tell her to get down on your knees in front of everyone and apologize for being so fvcked up if not get the fvck out of my face and go back to your wack azz boyfriend. if she does it shes going to get fvcked over by me. either way shes fvcked.

if you call up your ex she probably wont answer cause she knows whats going to happen. basically just try to fly under the radar if you wanna talk to her and dont reveal your true intentions. then when shes vunerable let her have it. youll probably feel bad about it she probably feels the same way, but still she needs to get what she deserves
 
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