"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Money isn't the root of all evil, women are...I'm hanging it up.

Moofahsa

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After the last year and a half or so of being a total manslvt I have figured a few things out. You can do the deed on time and have a kid. I have a 3 daughter with a total fukin wh0re. I am in the process of getting custody atm, talk about an expensive proposition.

Women are crazy. Choices made are from emotional and what benefits them at that time. Most can look you in the face and lie without a hint. Last week I had a girl steal my email and myspace and post a bunch of bulletins with personal messages. All because she had it in her head we were in a relationship and saw me at a gas station with another girl. I had to call the cops because I had over $3k in my paypal that was on that email...I got it back but it was a major embarrassment.

I'm a jealous guy, not severe...but I always think the worst in everyone. Doesn't jive too well with relationships. Perhaps it is the women I am drawn to...

Either way, last night I hopped out of the shower last night...getting ready and trying to decide which girl I was going to try and hook up with tonight (had 6 to choose from, not boasting but I just had a good network setup)

And I realized, I am not happy...so this morning I drove to my cellphone provider and had my number changed, deleted my myspace and if it comes down to it I'll just tell them the truth. I'm done.

Women don't make you happy, money does. :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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you just discovered that the road you are on, trying to get as "much" as you can, was a dead end. I made this discovery some time ago. You will discover the same thing about money eventually. :D
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Even though money isn't the root of all evil, the love of it may be; and money won't buy you happiness, it just pays for the search. And you're right, perhaps you should consider focusing on selecting better quality women during your searches. Working on the jealousy thing wouldn't hurt either.
 

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my family and my child are my joy. money and women are my past times. My daughters mother is a ****ing piece of work as well. I know that pain man. Life gets better man.
 

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I too have been through the battle and made this discovery. Which is why I made up my mind a couple months ago that I did not want more kids. I too have a kid with an emotional nutcase mommy ex-wife. Been there done that. These wh0res of today have no solid values and aren't worth making kids with. Next time you shoot your wad into a woman without protection, even if she is your wife, note that all you are doing is shooting your cash into her purse, if she so decides she wants to turn your c*m into cash. You aren't making a family for yourself if she gets pregnant.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DonGorgon

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Welcome to your new capitalist reality....
Where love for money will replace love for all else... You will learn though, that money will not make you "happy" either, but it will make you very very comfortable in your misery..

So go forth and earn and spend to your hearts content, and bask in the superficial joy of excessive materialism for it is the capitalist way!

*As for kids I am not having any they cost too much and i dont want any permanent ties to anyone, for a capitalist environment is not conducive to progressive interpersonal relationships (social concepts)
 
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