"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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penkitten

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below are some mojo sites. our louisville mojo site really rocks and its a good way to meet locals and go out and have a good time. there are lots of forums and you can get free admission into some participating clubs and what not . i think some of the mojo sites are slow and small right now but our louisville one just keeps growing and growing. check your area out for yourself:)


http://www.vegasmojo.com/
http://www.louisvillemojo.com/
http://www.cincinnatimojo.com/
http://www.nashvillemojo.com/
http://www.stlouismojo.com/
http://www.tampamojo.com/
http://www.atlantamojo.com/
http://www.trianglemojo.com/
http://www.indianapolismojo.com/
http://www.seattlemojo.com/
http://www.vabeachmojo.com/
http://www.chicagomojo.com/
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey Penkitten, I'm in Louisville too and have to agree about louisvillemojo. It's become huge in the last year or two. Wonder how the other citiesmojo does.
 

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ntssv said:
Hey Penkitten, I'm in Louisville too and have to agree about louisvillemojo. It's become huge in the last year or two. Wonder how the other citiesmojo does.
i looked at a few of them and both of those looked very small. some of them are even newer. (imagine louisvillemojo when it first began.)
however sites grow and anyone can benifit from being a mojo member once they do.
 
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