"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Moisturize?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I suspect like most things, the best thing to do is fix nature's way of getting the skin moist rather than slapping on some chemical agent straight away.
So at the risk of sounding like your mother, make sure you eat 5 fruit / veg a day, and drink plenty of water. If you go out drinking, watch out cause your body needs to use water to flush out the alcohol. Same for caffeine.
Lack of a good night's sleep seems to leave the skin dry as well.
Also, don't over-wash your face. Washing (especially with harsh compounds like soap) can dry out your skin. Lots of people have 'cuts' in their hands from over-washing. Skin naturally cleans itself, so it's not necessary to wash them as much as you'd think.
But if you've done all that, and your skin's STILL dry, maybe it's time to give the moisturisers a shot.
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Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
I hope this does not turn into another "jerk off" thread...
Anyways, I heard that lotion causes cancer. But then what dosen't these days?
cuz my skin is very sensitive and doesnt excrete much oil during winter.
in warm weather, i excrete much oil on my face from my pores....it's either a good thing or bad thing. Would be kinda be bad for a chick to touch my face and having oil all over her hands.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
i dont trust the way they "moisturize", just doesnt seem or feel right.
man..i cant even imagine how ****ed up a modern woman's skin is...every day they put on some weird **** called "foundation" then mositurizer, then sunscreen, and then makeup on top of all that.that many chemicals for 40-50 years is a freak show in the making.
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hey Levex, I use an Aloe Vera moisturizing gel, its not a lotion, but rather just a clear, scentless gel that does a good job moisturizing, and doesnt leave that "weird" feeling you're talking about...