"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mods, answer please

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vincent

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where did you get those links from?
 

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no way diablo...

if u want to get to "how to be really cool" by matrix, the url is this:

http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum2/HTML/001824.html

try to change it with forum6 and it brings to another thread

and that's the same for every thread on this "forum2"... dunno why, but they don't seem to work anymore... do u know if they are on line yet?

in this page:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=15065

u find lots of interesting threads but half of them are not available anymore, for they are in forum2


fix'em if u can, i pray ya:)
 

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The links you provided are to the old(er) site. That would be the the yellow and brown board for you older posters that remember.

The links probably won't work because they weren't part of the "cached" pages. Survivor posted a link somewhere in here that has the site where you can see old pages.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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