You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
serDUDE said:i was seeing this Direct dating seminar and i started wondering if this DavidX and the guy that write ModeOne were for real...
have you ever used or have seen someone get results with this kind
[nice lips...i want you to suck my d.i.c.k. ]
approach?
what do you think about them?
If he is "selling them dreams" then that's Mode 2 isn't it? last time I checked Mode is being upfront and honest. I think it can work too but you have to have three things to pull it of.Kupid Diggs said:
