"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mixed messages, I don't understand?

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SoulMan13

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There's this girl I've been pursuing for a couple of weeks or so. Whenever we're both on a break and have no lectures and she's not with her friends she will text me and tell me to meet her. We both also walk home together occasionally as we live close to each other. We've not made out or anything yet as she doesn't like PDA and we haven't been in private together yet.

We have a really good time when we're together. She will come up to me and start a conversation and she'll be laughing (hysterically), smiles at me a lot and makes eye contact when she sees me around, slight kino etc and it seems like she's really into me.

However, when it comes to texting, she will always initiate the conversation with an inside joke etc but when I reply she will just ignore my text. It's not just a one off thing as she does it EVERY time. It doesn't bother me as I'm not waiting on a reply from her as I'm talking to other girls at the same time, I'd just like to know what the deal is with her as she's the girl I'm most in to.

Thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WeaponOfWar

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These kind of things are very confusing,the best advice i could give you would be to confront her and find out if she likes you as more than a friend.
 
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sylvester the cat

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if you like her, ask her out. it's the only way to find out if she likes u or not.

if she rejects you, you know where you stand.

forget about all this texting ping pong.
 
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