"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mission #1: The Mature Lady (I need advice)

Ragin_Asian

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Ok Im 21 and I very, very interested in exploring the joys of DJing older women for me (25 and older). I've hooked up with a 27 year old before but it was sheer luck and a drunken thing.

I have read from others experience with older women and thats got me hooked. And also I hear they are in their sexual prime and just better quality.

I dont really have any strategies or tactics. I kinda don't have the balls to just approach older chiks cos they're usually with someone and I dont want one with kids.

Ok now I have these questions about finding mature ladies...
1. Where do I go finding them?? Should I try looking at MSN profiles in my city?
2. How would I know that shes single and on "heat"? Obviously the wedding ring or the 3 kids screaming is a red flag.
3. How do I make myself very attractive to these types of women?
4. What certain traits do these women value the most/look for?
5. Where can I find a guide?? Obviously MILFhunter is not one...

Please lads share your experiences and knowledges. Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1. Do you like cougars? They usually hang out in bars near hot clubs. They also stay later to grab the young guys who strike out at the hot club nearby. They tend to have too much make up and clothes that are too tight draped over with clothes that are too loose. They'll be a little drunk and if you stand near them long enough will start to flirt if they are interested.

2. Cougars are in heat by definition. They might have rings and children but they won't make you deal with it early on.

3. They like their men young, not particularly intelligent, cute and energetic. Because they are usually tipsy you can slide a little on everything but energetic.

4. Energy and someone to make their friends / co-workers / cat jealous. All they want is to feel younger. They can't so they'll feel you.

5. they're everywhere in Canada

Once you get a feel for their look it's not hard to find them.
 

Ragin_Asian

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The age range I'm looking for is 25 to 35. Not clapped out grannies lol. I'm just curious to meet someone who is smart, intelligent, secure and did I say in their sexual prime again??

How do I go about attracting these women?
 

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ive hanged out with them, 31 year olds. very very cute. fun loving and knows how ot have fun. i'm only 22 and i get along with them very well. just bust some c&f and be loose laid back and u shall do fine.
 

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Im currently involved with a older woman, she is in her thirties.

I met her at the Establishment in Sydney, which is a upscale bar that draws an older crowd (25+) and mostly succesfull people. Almost everyone there are business/suit people, most of the women I've met there are secretarys that want some CEO manmeat. I like those kinda places, you dont find all those wannabe punks that go 'bling bling' and think they are all that. Heh, they don't get past the bouncers. I look older(im 20, but look like 25+), so it's not that difficult for me to pull older chicks.

Check if your town have places like that.

This is my FR from the night I met her,
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66190

I think Eggchen also is involved with one. Do a search on his FR.


Trick is to mature up a little bit. The same C&F routine that you pull on stupid college/uni bimbo chicks don't work. Older women are more settled down and they know what they want (at least mine do :p or so she thinks :cool: ) And also, they are more experienced so you're in for a ride if you pull it off.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ragin_Asian

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Wow this girl I'm seeing now is a real kinky freak and tells me her 27yr old lezz partner in crime is coming into town soon and that she kept telling me that she would love me to bits. So give it a few more weeks then I'll see what happens.

Hmmm a threesome with a young nympho and an older chik....I can't wait for that.

Also I've got a question...by going through with all these kinky sh*t would it change my attitude towards women and a normal love/sex life?? As I live in college thing like this would stick and affect me...Does anyone have any experience on this?
 
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