"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Missing MartL...

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This has kinda been buggin me for awhile...

Where is MartL's post in the sticky on the top of Tip's?? It says hes the last to post in that thread, but its nowhere to be found??

Its not really important where it went, but for curiousities sake, I just gotta know.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wow, I was expecting a much more complex answer...:(

I should never have asked, it would have been so much more fun to imagine that something unexplainable and mysterious happened, its the romantic in me. :)

Oh well, thanks for clearing that up Allen.

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