"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Missing Important Texts

Have you ever missed an important text in a romance?

  • Yes

    Votes: 1 33.3%
  • No

    Votes: 2 66.7%

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    3

bigneil

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While telephones, answering machines and email were all remarkably reliable, cell phone calls and text messages are not so reliable.

In fact, I've missed perhaps a dozen important text messages that I know about, and God knows how many we don't know about.

For this reason, if you follow the one-strike policy, you almost need to be sure it's not purely based on texting.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bigneil

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I guess this assumes you actually have a phone number and romance.
 

guru1000

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I missed a couple texts before from hot women. But you know what, if they can't double text, fvck em'.
 

Casillas

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Keep in mind that sometimes no message is also a message... If Im important to her she will find a way.
 
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