Missed out on a great oppurtunity. How to get physical?

[Ted_SA]

Went to watch a movie with a girl last night that is clearly very interested in me, yet I still couldn't make the first move, that first touch. Once past the first hurdle I usually have little to no problems escalating to making out or even sex but there have been countless occasions where I just got stuck making the initial physical contact such as the arm around her or hand holding. I left with no more than a hug and a kiss on the cheek after the movie and felt very disappointed in myself!

Any pointers on getting started? (if that makes sense)

Also I fear that the lack of physical contact may put me in risk of her believing I'm not interested or just leave me in the dreaded friend zone, seeing as there have been three dates so far and no action!

 

[KontrollerX]

Well I think as a pointer you simply need motivation.

Just think to yourself hey if I don't make a move on this chick someother dude is going to fvck her eventually and there I will be with my d!ck in my hand.

So yeah think thoughts like that or anything at all that can motivate you.

Maybe just how much you want to get your rocks off can do it lmao.

Make your move whatever it takes and like this site says: "Make the ho say no" lol.

Meaning make your move and if she rejects your advances then you back off.

Simple and if you were dealing with a reasonable sane woman you won't have to worry about her running to the cops on ya so long as you stop at no.

I bring this up because maybe this is why you were worried about making a move if its not just simple anxiety?

 

[Bible_Belt]

rub any part of her you happen to touch, like a reflexive massage. When you see her liking it, use push-pull to back away and make her come to you.

Then do the kiss test - stroke hair, look into eyes, and kiss her.