"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mindset you need

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I was messing around on youtube the other night when I stumbled on this clip. It's from Red Dawn. Pay attention to the Quarterback in this clip. Take a look at his demeanor, his confidence, and his swagger. That's the mindset we need to strive for. Supreme inner confidence but also not too serious, splashed with some humor and playfulness.

 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's a good motivation clip and i like the swagger. But i think it's more of how us guys like to see ourselves rather than what women want. There are certainly some women out there who may even think it's kinda dumb.

But i think the primary thing is, most of all you should be yourself before anything else and striving for success can be part of that. I wouldn't just try to copy something from a movie or a clip that i saw and become exactly that, I was down that road before and you come off looking fake while you also try too hard. Better be relaxed and enjoying yourself. That's what we strive for afterall
 

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I guess it's all perspective....

I look at that clip and think what a bunch of puzzies needing helmets and shoulder pads...

Rugby....no there's a sport
 

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I guess it's all perspective....

I look at that clip and think what a bunch of puzzies needing helmets and shoulder pads...

Rugby....no there's a sport
I don't think wearing helmets and pads is puzzy, I think it's smart. I mean shoot if a player gets paralyzed he won't be able to rail his GF and some other guy who wore a helmet and pads will. He also won't be able to advance his career to college or pro whatever the next level us, but some other guy who wore protection will.
 

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I don't think wearing helmets and pads is puzzy, I think it's smart. I mean shoot if a player gets paralyzed he won't be able to rail his GF and some other guy who wore a helmet and pads will. He also won't be able to advance his career to college or pro whatever the next level us, but some other guy who wore protection will.
Yeah what kind of moron wouldn't wear pads you can tell that someone who never played the game on the field would say this hell even when I played high school football some of the defensive linemen I went up against were 6 foot 4 and over 300 pounds and they were kids !
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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@logicallefty I was comparing it to rugby...

@Red Legg or maybe the moron played rugby. Hint: no helmets or pads in rugby. You can tell you never played rugby. Surely you can comprehend the post that talks about perspective and comparing the two sports. Must of got home schooling in slack jaw yokel country.
 

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@logicallefty I was comparing it to rugby...

@Red Legg or maybe the moron played rugby. Hint: no helmets or pads in rugby. You can tell you never played rugby. Surely you can comprehend the post that talks about perspective and comparing the two sports. Must of got home schooling in slack jaw yokel country.
Rugby is boring though that is why it was never was popular in the USA (and never will be)....American football is much more violent and fun to play.
 

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NFL is very stop and start but I can’t deny it grew on me when I lived in Miami and it was on tv all the time.

Baseball is trash. Basketball is meh.

Americans really do make some **** sports.
 

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Rugby players are definition of Alpha Male.

There wasn't a single terrorist event that could have been "worse" where a rugby player didn't participate in saving the day. Even on 9/11, London Attack, France train, Iran Embassy attack etc

It's they are all mega fit and they handle adrenaline really well due to competitive sport without protection.

Actually, did you know the adding of "Armor" (padding, helmet, boxing glove, UFC gloves) just made the game more "dangerous" for the athletes.

Every sport where "gear" was added injuries skyrocket.

The average NFL football last 3 years.

The mindset you need is : confidence, Action, moment taking.

It comes more easily to Sport athlete because they constantly live in that frame and knowing that their environment might collapse anytime
 
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