"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

MILF's

C-quenced

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 15, 2008
Messages
574
Reaction score
62
Location
Purgatory
Where are the best places to find them and how difficult is it to get with them? A lot of them seem hostile I make the slightest eye contact. I mean... I did have about 5 chances with about 5 different women (I guess I'm not that ugly) but I always end up screwing everything up due to lack of experience. When it comes to older women how exactly does the game change?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

BobMo'

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 9, 2008
Messages
123
Reaction score
7
That hostility that you're sensing is part of the package with MILFs, Cougars, or almost any other older woman. Most have "trust issues," too.
 

C-quenced

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 15, 2008
Messages
574
Reaction score
62
Location
Purgatory
That hostility that you're sensing is part of the package with MILFs, Cougars, or almost any other older woman. Most have "trust issues," too.

I could see why most would have trust issues but why do MILF's and cougars come off as being so uneasy and unfriendly?
 

horaholic

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 12, 2008
Messages
2,254
Reaction score
79
I have had very good luck with milfs. They are more direct, and cut through a lot of bvllshyt. I have had several experiences with them, where less than an hour of meeting them, I would simply say "lets go to my house." and the they go "OK. Do have condoms?"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Top