Middle school tips?

[Lompa]

Well, i am in 8th grade currently (age 14) and i would be happy to get some answers:
Dating at middle school=coming to hard?
I asked a girl out, she firstly said yes and she "was in a hury" so she said she will give it to me tommrow. Tommrow came and she hided from me...
Should i just offer them to eat with me launch?
If so, how do i avoid the freind zone?
And should i ask for digits?

Thanks in advanced.

 

[kgarvey]

well if I were you the first thing I'd do is try and figure out why she is acting like that,is she embarrassed?,does she not like you in that way but didn't want to upset you?or hopefully is that she's just new to the whole thing and is acting in a childish way even though she does like you.I need more details.(yes I'm new here on this account but I did used to come on a while back so I do know a little bit)

 

[Lompa]

I think she is embarced, i am pretty sure she never dated/had a boyfriend or even had a kiss. Anyway, i think next time i should just offer the girls to eat with me at lunch-less pressure on her this way.

 

[The Columbus Myth]

i nvr did date in mid school but i do have a eXtremely good excuse (i went a school with 16 people in my entire 8th grade class) i guess im starting to look at the girls i went to mid school as some of my closest friends

but in ur situation heres wat id try

ignore her for a bit then during ur last class together pass her a note (if u dont have premeant seats sit close to her)

have the note say "How are we ever supposed to go on a date if i dont even have ur #?"

from there it should go smooth

 

[Skilla_Staz]

In your note, make sure you spell things correctly

 

[Lompa]

Hehe, i am from israel and when i posted i was in a rush.
The Columbus Myth:Great idea! seriously, wonderful! i think i should let her chill and take a break but great idea!

btw:going to a date in middle school-Ok or not?

 

[kalash74]

When I was in middle school I tried to find out a lot of things from the girl's friends. They can be willing to tell you things sometimes, and if not they will start gossiping about how you asked about that certain girl, and it will at least get the girl thinking about you.
I found some of the best times to ask a girl out in middle school was at school dances. I am not sure if many schools have them, but mine did. Maybe dance with the girl on the slow dance at the end of the dance and at the end of it hold her close (when the lights are still dimmed) and ask her somewhere or tell you how you feel.
I know this is a lot different than what you are told to do (at least in high school) but I think that middle school dating calls for different tactics.

 

[The Shocker]

Dude when you're in middle school the girls are really impressionable. Which means if you are a MAN, a real man, not a f_ucking puzzy or poser like most guys that age you will attract all the ladies (except the idiots who fall for the posers).