"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Middle age slump

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

mrRuckus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 14, 2005
Messages
4,382
Reaction score
85
Victory Unlimited said:
Now don't get me wrong, not EVERYBODY looked "thrown away", but so few of them looked GOOD that the ones who WERE in shape looked GREAT by comparison. It was a very strange situation: Here I was with people I went to school with who were in their early 40's too, and all I could think about was how "old" THEY looked to ME. LOL
Hahaha... my 10th reunion is coming up and there was already the 5, which i skipped.. but i did see pictures of it, and pretty much everybody has completely fallen apart... AT THE 5 YEAR!!! What the hell did they do to themselves in college!?

Then there's the "blah blah HS class of 1998" myspace page with a bunch of my classmates on there as friends. Ugh. They're getting even worse. Cheerleaders that were smokin are hideous now! I understand you can't maintain a 16 year old body forever, but they're only 27 now. They should still be pretty if they weren't weak on the inside.

One thing i did notice is that a lot of girls are married and a lot of the guys are single. I also noticed the women all moved away, but a bunch of the guys never went anywhere.
 
Top