"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Met her once, Perfect but what next?

vivek59234

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Guys,

Finally I am seeing a new girl...

Last night I met a hot chick who is my friend's friend. We were 2 guys and 2 gals together for the booze party last night... All were drunk except me.

This hot chick I am talking about is my friend's friend and she calls him bro. She's damn hot and sexy...

The party went on and she was so much drunk that she couldn't even walk... I helped her and took her to bed, asked her weather she's alright or not? She wasn't in control at all so decided to let her sleep for a while, meanwhile we enjoyed our party... Later on she got up and we guys started dancing together, she was perfectly alright at that time and it was fun...


Now my question is how to get this girl? what should have I done to get her that night? I am asking this for knowledge...

And how will I go over this now? Shall I ask my friend to get her number and call her up? How will I attract her? this is kinda difficult thing I guess...

Please advise me on this...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lord Sidious

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Seems to me that you had a great chance to make a move, bro. I don´t mean to take advantage of her being drunk. I mean after, when she got up and started to dance with you.

You should have escalate her physically. From there you could have an idea of what you could do on that night. You had everything to go for number close, at least!

Will you see her in a party again soon? That´d be better to ask her name to your friend.
 

2bAlpha

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Get info out of you friend while dating as many other girls as possible. Then you'll build confidence, learn more about what you want and keep out of the LJBF situations. Take it for what its worth, but dating my guy friends friend's never works well unless its friends that are younger ect.
Good luck, let us know.
 

vivek59234

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Well... It was all good... She sorta started liking me a bit because everytime I used 2 joke, she used to laugh on it... And we know each other very well now...
I will get her number as well, that's not a big deal..

After getting her number, how will I close her? because she's like damn hard to get kinda chick... She is very hot and a lotta guys are behind her...
 
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