Messed up Relationship

[English_Bloke]

Ok I need your opinion on this relationship I got stuck in. Should I drop it or keep it....Either way its gonna sound screwed up so hear me out.

Hot girl, year older than me, but moves states in 7 months. Im already good friends with her and we got on good. We hang out like most weekends and spend a few hours togethor each day thru school stuff.

I want to take it up to dating, she had hinted about it but not for a while. This guy comes along and she is really outgoing with him all hugs and kisses. Then sometimes is the same w/ me. I think im being tooled in the last few days so im gonna fix this.

Should I ask her out? If so how because after being friends with her for a while, she knows me so I need a better line than I usually use.

So I want to make a move soon before this other guy might. If she says no to me than I know whats up.

Problem is that we are in alot of classes togethor and are going to Italy togethor. You see how this could screw up for me?

What do I need to do?

 

[penkitten]

is she torn between you two?

 

[English_Bloke]

I think she must be, but doesnt show it. She is a nice as a person but I think her emotions are mixed around and dosnt want to hurt anyone... Anything I can do to nudge things in my favor?

 

[[]D [] []V[] []D]

Ok... you may not realize this but you are actually chasing her... and shes makin you do this

you have to take a RISK:

Go flirt infront of her, and whenever you see her talking to the guy go talk to another girl. Let me draw a picture for you lol

This is what you're doing:

You_____Girl
====>___====>

This is what will happen

You_____________________Girl
====>___________________====>


*******************************
This is what you want to do:

You_______Girl
<====____====>

This is what will happen:

You_________Girl
<====_____<====

Get it? Got it? Good.

 

[English_Bloke]

Great picture, makes sense. I got enough people that I can use infront of her, should be interesting.

Thanks for the help, yeah, damn I definitly was chasing her lol. At least thats going to change tomorrow.

As for if I want to ask her out, I feel that if I just use the standard line to ask her out that it will fall through. I need to catch her off guard. Any ideas?