"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mentality while at the club

skinnyguy

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I've come up for some rules to follow if you're at a club:

1. If you see a hot girl, think to yourself that you're 10 times cooler than her. The worst thing you can do is think "oh man, she's so hot, what am I going to say?" Put the ho in her place and realize that she is probably uneducated and just has friends because she's pretty. She probably doesn't have anything to offer other than sex and would be lucky to date you because you're much more well rounded than her.

2. You're the most important person at the club. This will do wonders for your confidence. You need to believe that your needs are more important to any one else's needs. Think that you're Jay-Z or Lebron and that everyone wants to be around you. You're God. You're a baller. You're a King.

3. Don't get intimidated if a girl is with a big group of friends. These girls are actually the most insecure because without their friends, they are nothing and they can't function if they're alone.

4. Act like you're having fun. Keep drinking until this happens.

5. Don't take your phone out to look at your messages. If you take your phone out because you don't have anyone to talk to, chicks will think you have low social value.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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zinc4

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number 1: have fun

The rest will fall into place...unless you are too sloppy drunk or ****faced which is a turn off to everyone.
 
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LorenzoVonM said:
How's that working for you?
For real. Skinnyguy sounds like a frustrated virgin beta in all of his posts and now all of a sudden he wants to give us dating tips? :crazy:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Learn how to dance before you go... takes a few hours with a DVD in the privacy of your own home and keeps you entertained on the dance floor. Use the nightclub as your own personal gym, enjoy yourself, go with a goal of dancing for X number of hours. When you do this, women become a secondary goal and they will notice that right away. If you do this right, you shouldn't need to approach women, they will approach you.

I bought my wife some dance dvds and she taught herself some stuff, now we both have fun when we go out. Before she was just sitting on a stool looking at me for 4 or 5 hours.

http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XNTEzMzA3ODIw.html

These guys are obviously having fun on their own and probably the life of the party at a nightclub. Take it from me, I've been hitting clubs for 15 years... still going even though I'm married, you should see my wife and I dance together. I get hit on left, right and center.
 

foreverAFC

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isnt this guy the indian race troll
 

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Rules to follow for clubs:

1.Do be good looking.
2.Don't be unattractive
2.Profit.

If you're not good looking:

1.Stay home.

I'm kidding mostly :p .
 

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zinc4 said:
number 1: have fun

The rest will fall into place...unless you are too sloppy drunk or ****faced which is a turn off to everyone.
I agree. Go to enjoy yourself and stop pursuing women.
 
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I'm going to give field reports of strict ONSs. I'm all ears about your experiences, gentlemen.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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