"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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why do men mention their ex girlfriends or mothers the very first time u meet them??evry single time..u meet a guy for the 1st time..and he HAS to mention his ex or mom..WHY???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hmmm... couldn't really tell you just wanted to BUMP hehehe

i never mention an ex or my mum, might have something to do with me being a boy still (17)
 

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Good question, and one that gets asked by alot of chicks.

Its what I call an "AFC's cry for help".
Its his way of saying "look see other chicks dig me, will you?" Like a retards version of social proofing himself mixed with sh!t thats been bombarded to him since birth about how chicks want sensitiveness and emo talks about past heart breaks and how he really does care bout mum and women in general, please pity me cause I really am nice just misunderstood etc etc.

In a nutshell.

He doesnt know any better, just let it go.
 
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