"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Men have it easier than women

Ol'BlueEyes

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I used to think women had it easy. Nowadays, I know better.
I think us guys misinterpret the AMOUNT of sex that women get as a good thing. More sex=better, right? Sure, hot girls could get laid a lot more....unless they want to be labeled as sluts and have their social circles gossip about them behind their backs.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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comote

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If a woman is interested in you she will send you signs more substantial than simple eye contact.

I have never met a woman who will just straight up approach, they always want to be able to play it off.
 

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Originally posted by comote
If a woman is interested in you she will send you signs more substantial than simple eye contact.

I have never met a woman who will just straight up approach, they always want to be able to play it off.
What other kinds of signs?

If they're always looking to play it off, then they've effectively insulated their ego.
 

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It does seem like they want to "play it off," that's why they're never too "obvious" about it. They expect you to approach, and if you don't it's no skin off their backs because they didn't really risk anything but subtle hints. I see it all the time.
 

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women would walk around feeling miserable constantly. [/B][/QUOTE]

and they dont?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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