"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Not sure if anyone has heard of Meetup.com. Has anyone ever tried those groups as an organic way of meeting people, making friends, and of course, meeting women?

I was a hiking Meetup event, and this one woman pointed out, "Have you noticed that most of the people that join these Meetups are single?"

Yes, I had noticed...at least in my area...you rarely see couples attend these events. If they do, it's some niche' activity...like hiking...but when it comes to those Fri or Saturday night social Meetup groups...it's almost ALL singles.

So you do have your pick of the ladies. I would say, after the last of my friends got married...Meetup was my only way of meeting new people.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think its a good way of meeting new people, in a nice social environment, and to have some fun. My last plate also came from there
 

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I like meetup.com better than regular dating sites. And I also noticed they cater to single people.
 

ThisNThat

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I like meetup.com better than regular dating sites. And I also noticed they cater to single people.
Yeah, some people poo-poo it as, "If you have to use a site like Meetup to meet new people, then there's something a bit off about a person who cannot meet people outside of that."

Usually these people wind up as someone's tag-along at an event, but never actually join the site.
 

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You don't "have to" do anything. That's what makes meetup.com awesome. If you don't like someone you can just stop talking to them and it's not like some kinda choice was made. That stigma is for dating sites, not sites like meetup..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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